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Mr. Kostadinova's Multi-Media Biographic Web Page

July 15 2001 at 7:33 AM
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Mr. Kostadinova's multi-media biographic web-page will be the center piece of a prospective effort to provide as much data about the life of Mr. Kostadinova as humanly possible, without compromising the privacy and integrity of still living relatives and other personal contacts.

Elizabeth Kostadinova, Mr. Kostadinova's daughter, is able to access the internet and will be able to relate anecdotal stories about her father, on a continuing basis, on the forum portion of the website. Her desire to keep her father in "living memory" will allay some of her grief, in my opinion, if she works at it on a daily basis. I'm not an expert on grief, but it seems to me that this period may last for up to or beyond two years.

Elizabeth Kostadinova is motivated to try to save some of the remains of her father as a result of her grief, but it's too late. The brain liquifies shortly after death and there is no unique brain-structure left. I recommend that she allay her grief by redirecting her thoughts and actions to reconstructing and writing down her memories of him in the special purpose forum dedicated to his memory. This will create far superior results and will act to alleviate the grief in constructive and beneficial ways.

In addition, her helping to build a web page dedicated to his memory will make sense in terms of helping her father to increase the meaning of his life by making him more likely to be "simultaneous with eternity". If her father had any "great ideas", then she should write those into the web site forum as soon as possible so that his unique ideas may "live on" in the minds of the rest of us. This "cognitive reanimation" can only be done by her and her family members.

Time is of the essence, though, because during the period of grief is probably the BEST time to try to write a comprehensive and deeply felt biography. The time will come when Elizabeth will be over her grief and will move on in her life. I would urge Elizabeth Kostadinova to begin making entries to the forum I'll set up for her as soon as possible. I expect to have it set up sometime next week.



 
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