I'm almost positive nobody here has ever felt like this but have you have felt like there's no point to anything? Like no matter how hard we try we're always gonna fail in life? Or sometimes just feeling like there's no reason to get out of bed in the morning? I feel like I'm dying inside more and more everyday. Where is God when our lives turn to crap? When we're literally dying of a broken heart? Am the only one who feels like this? I'm almost sure you haven't but this is my last resort.
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It's kind of like; when you hit rock bottom the only place to go is up. Things will get better. You just have to look at the postive things in life, and take obsticales as they come. Everything happens for a reason, I don't know what that reason is but maybe we will find out sooner or later.
In response to your question, I feel that way everyday. But I try to think postive and say "things like this must happen for a reason, it's all part of God's plan."
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Yeah, I can relate to what you are saying. Whatever I do when I'm depressed is Chill out and watch a good movie or TV show and just relax by yourself. And don't let anyone tell you how to feel, You'll feel better with time.
Hang in there Smedsy!!!
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Not the topic I expected to find here but I've come to my own personal conclusion. Life is pointless. If wars ended and illness cured, what would we fight for? The only point to living is helping others and once that's done, what's the point? So could it ever be successful? We go overseas to "help" but then what are we helping towards? What is the epitome of "perfect?" America? Europe? Neither is perfect. It may be hard to follow my train of thought but for me it's very clear... but of course this is just my opinion...
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You haven't said specifically what is wrong. I hope that it is something that you can figure out how to look past. Life is what we make of it and there are fantastic things to do and see in the world. Don't let persons around you hold you down. You have to focus on liking yourself and then others will like you too. I don't know what else to say, but you can IM me if you like at "ahwahneemom".
Go out and do something for yourself, that you like. Take care of you.
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Thanks a lot. It's just that I'm sick of being lied to by people around me. Like this one girl said she liked me and I spent a day thinking we were going out when I found out her friend lied to me. It wouldnt be so bad except for the fact that its the third or fourth time that's happened. And her friend did that to me because I was mean to her. And I had already apoligized. I feel like everything in my life isnt real, and I've just had enough of it. Sorry if you find this annoying but I just don't know what else to do.
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hmm... I don't know how old you are, but eventually you'll realize that sometimes it's better to talk about feelings face to face with people honestly, instead of basing all your thoughts and actions on fears and assumptions. better to make desicions based on truth and confidence. you may not understand what this means right now, but you'll get it later, when you're not so down about life and such.
I was involved in a some-what similar situation a while ago. Someone who was close friends with a guy in my math class told me that he liked me. I wasn't sure what to do, because i have a no-dating-til-i'm-in-grade-12 promise to God thingy, so even though I kinda liked him too, I couldn't go out with him. I felt guilty, so in a dramatic burst of honesty, i told him all about it and apologized that i wouldn't go out with him until i fullfilled my promise. Then he said he used to like me a long time ago, months ago, but he didn't anymore, and he even had a girlfriend. wow. embarrassing. good thing no one else was around. good thing i didn't tell the friend who told me he liked me. but you know what? he said it was cool that i made the promise and I was waiting and stuff, and we started talking and being ourselves because we were honest at the start, and now we're really good friends because we talked about it, instead of going through every math class wondering if he was looking at me and wondering if he likes me. sometimes it pays to take chances. just do it the right way, i guess.
as for being sick of life... don't. it isn't worth it. at least not in the summer. get out and have some fun. release your anger and frustration by doing something . like hacking wood for some old man. i guess they'd pay you er sumffin, i don't know, but there are probably a few random old men in your town that need some wood hacked. or become gay. that could be a solution. i'm just kidding. try to lighten up a bit. life isn't all about what girls think of you. hang out with your guy friends some more, or get a summer job. if school isn't out for you yet, try focusing on your schoolwork, and studying up for exams. that'll pay off alot.
If it gets really serious, you should talk to an adult, or someone older than you that you can trust. anyone you feel comfortable being yourself around. i'm not saying you have to get counciling, just communicate your feelings. if you don't feel comfortable doing that, you could try write in a journal, or just writing a letter to the girl you're angry at, or to God. Just write out all your thoughts and feelings, then put it aside and do something relaxing, like taking a bubble bath, or watching a movie, reading a book, or just doing something you love, like if photography is your thing,go for a walk and take some pictures, or if music is your thing, play your guitar for a bit. after you've relaxed, go back and read the letter, and add stuff if you still need to, and keep writing then relaxing until you feel better. that's what i do. it really works for me.
your life certainly is real. the things you say and do matter to people. it may not seem that way now, but you probably affect more people than you think. if you feel like you're leading a dull existence, try being unpredictable. like, do something spontaneous. volunteer to help the elderly or the homeless er sumffin. if you're looking for God, maybe you could join a youth group and get involved. sorry this is so long. whatever you do, remember that the times when you tell yourself life isn't real, you're missing it.
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I used to be really depressed and the best thing in the world was HIM. It's a band and there music is great when your depressed. You just feal so not alone and...I don't know I just could always really on them to help me chill out and not get to histerical or do something stupid. I also find walking or running good for deprestion, it takes your mental stress and transforms it into physical well not stress but you know what I mean. Anyway I hope you get passed this phase. I did, like last night I was listening to HIM for the first time in a while and I was able to listen to the music in a whole different view.
One of my biggest pet peeves is when people are all nice to your face or they lie to your face and then they say something entirely different behind your back. AH! If you want some teen drama I can tell you all about this guy...what an ASS! But I'll get over it because I've won (sorta) so he can just kiss my ass.
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actually, I find it helps to be alone when your said. Close you eyes, Throw on some Pink floyd and relax. I also like to go for walks in the woods for a while. Find a little sanctuary where you can just observe your surroundings and be at peace. It will make things seem better.
but I wouldnt really bring god into this. Event though I dont really beleive in god, Im sure if he existed he would be more interested in saving the lives of poor starving childrens in Africa, or kids living life in terror of having their family murdered by an oppressive anarchist in north korea, not a young kid whose said because his crush doesnt actually like him.
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harry: Your going to go play quidditch?
fred/george: ...no
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Thanks A LOT !!!! I feel a lot better now. I can't say I'm completely better but I'm not as sad as I was. I listened to music took a walk took my anger out and I feel better. I am getting revenge though. Thanks a TON for the help. This may sound dumb but I didn't realize that some other people feel like this. I'm not over it but I'm not sulking anymore. As for Lee saying God doesn't exist I'm 100 percent positive He does exist. I may doubt His reasons for doing things, but I dont doubt his existence. God does do everything for a reason and we can't understand what they are.
But I have realized I have a good life and won't let this affect me. Although it is important to me, I'm not gonna let a girl bother me like that again for a while.
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Hey Michael Smedsrud at age 13. This is Michael Smedsrud at age 16. How are you doing? I heard about this movie called The Lake House where Keanu Reeves makes like a time dimension thing with this girl from 2006 to 2004, and I'm thinking maybe that'll happen.
Well I should tell you how I like being a sophomore. It's awesome. And don't freak out about girls, cause you won't meet Lindsey until April 2005. But hey, I've made out with three girls man. THREE!! I think that's pretty good.
Tommy has left the Fellowship. Yeah. Give up on him dude. And....Bush won in November so DO NOT LET THAT HAPPEN AGAIN.
But anyways just realize junior high does end. So enjoy the summer!!
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