don't be mad you've been reported. be thankful. this is the begining of a better life for you. just start throwing stuff away. if it helps - then pretend. pretend you've been told you have to move to (?) uganda. what would you take with you and what would have to be pitched? i'm guessing most of your stuff will have to be pitched if this were true. you will finally be FREE of your stuff. been there done that. i am so much happier not hoarding things.