Which of the following are preferable to what occurred.

1) Your son withholds his feelings from you and keeps them inside his heart because he is scared to tell you how he really feels. The stress that he expressed begins to find a different outlet.

2) Your son tells someone else about how it hurts to leave a clean place and return home.

3) You acknowledge your sons feelings and open a line of communication with him that you may or may not ever have a chance to open again.

It isn't too late.

DB