I really don't get what the options post by Drummer Boy was about. I truely don't.

I wouldn't say ds really hurt my feelings. I felt awful because it bothered him more then I realized. I felt awful that he has to deal with the messiness.

I do not and have never discouraged him from being honest. However, he does know some things are not acceptable such as saying so and so is fat or saying "I hate you".

We had already had plans to clean his room this week. Because he doesn't have school and I only work a couple days. I would like to get the house done in the next couple weeks before school starts.