I could actually feel how tired you are

I read everyone's answers and agree with all. Glad you posted, wish I could "fix" it, wish I could make the family understand etc. I do strongly recommend that you schedule some time out for yourself. If you do not take good care of yourself it will take a huge toll and you will not be able to take care of the kids. My position is a bit different in that I am the gramma so everything I do for the boys is voluntary and that is an enviable position to be in. I did raise 3 children so do understand how tiring it can get. The holidays will be over soon which should help a bit. Vent any time, sometimes that is all we can do for the moment.