ok.. any preferences for...

clothing.
"casual"? like at home. doc. marten work boots with black leggings, or shorts, or leggings under the shorts (depending on how cold it is) a looongggg t-shirt, topped with a tank top, and a hat. always a hat.
(oh dont wear a bra, it hurts too much, should one wear one to a IEP meeting even if 'casual'??)

or "dressier"?
like hhmm... when went to the dinner and dance with rosa one time... which is a black pant suit (VERY itchy material!! aagghh) and flat black shoes.

or "funeral clothes"?
incase ever need to go to a funeral or a wedding.
(cant imagine it happening, but am prepared for it all)
have a long velvety blue dress, top is like a tank top sort of straps,and then there is a little short vest type of addition (what it isfor am not sure) . flat black shoes.

any suggestions.?