medusa, i understand that you are very sensitive about your boy. this is how it is to be a mother and i can see that. i have apologised for unintentional harm and that is a sincere and heartfelt apology. I understand that it is hard for you i am not apologising in the way you want. i have already apologised for unintentional harm.
http://www.network54.com/Forum/message?forumid=139344&messageid=1025895024
Regarding discussion of treasure, i can email you the irc logs. you will be able to check the conversation and see that debate was very much about the misunderstanding between us and very little about other aspects of conflict. perhaps the few references i made, suggesting that due to circumstances, you have every reason to be happy, are so significant to you that they have an importance that was not at all proportionate in the actual time span of the discussion.
if you would like the logs, just let me know.