parents who jump to conclusions

I have met parents like you over the years! You are a judgmental and overbearing, self-righteous parent that claims they are doing all things for the good of their child! I DO have a child with a disability and it is a very tough road, but, let me tell you that you are not the only poor person to have to deal with issues. I have met many, many, parents over the years and I know your type. You are the type of person that blames everyone else for your child's behavior and problems and if you don’t have anyone to blame or sue you chalk it up to it’s just the disability. EXCUSE ME, But a disability does not mean a child can not learn right from wrong and no matter what therapy or schooling you get him/her-You are the one most responsible person for the behavior of your own child. It all stems from the home!!!!!!!! Of course, arrogant people like yourself usually don’t discipline, they excuse and blame. Usually people like you are very sue happy people because they have the mentality that everyone owes them!!! Guess what? I don’t owe you a darn thing and neither does society. What you get for your child you should be happy about and I’m not saying you can’t fight for certain things but lady you have to have some type of balance in your life. Your child gets hurt in the end if you don’t. When he is an adult and is still biting and acting out who are you going to get to take care of him? You? Will you be able to handle a strong man biting you? Who will you have to sue or blame? Who will want to take care a child like that? From the postings I don't even see that this is the school OR a teacher or aide. This poor person may just not want to respond because of your goofy assumptions. Postings = abuse??? ABSURD! You sound like a lunatic! Where I’m sitting I would blame the parents for not doing more in the home. My child has hurt the aides at school. I apologize to them and make my child apologize as well! I don't blame someone else because my child hurt them….it's not their fault, it's my childs! That is responsible parenting. Sounds like you are the one doing harm to him because it’s a lot harder to take care of a child when the parents are mean and not responsible and and blame someone else when things happen. My child has come a long way and It has to do with a team effort all the way around. I work with my daycare and my school district. You are probably a bossy lady who screams out what she wants and that doesn’t make for a good team. I feel very sorry for people like you because you sound like a lonely lady who has nothing better to do then to feel sorry for herself and make sure everyone in your life feels the same way all because your child was born with a disability. I think you need to deal with it and make the best out of and turn it into a blessing then a prison sentence for yourself and everyone you and your son have contact with!!! Just from you letters and outrageous comments with no facts no bases for a lot of what you say – I think I nailed it right on the head what I say about you in this letter. Just a "sixth sense," My intuition!! Your probably fuming mad. That’s O.K. People usually are when they hear the truth-But I feel very good because hearing the truth is usually the first step to recovery. Hope you can get over your hatred, bitterness and anger because you and your child will have a much happier life.