I never saw my dad with wood, but my bro and I almost always had wood. I don't know why we didn't help each other relieve it, but we did watch each other give ourselves relief. I've always alternated between jackin' off or just waiting 10 minutes for it to go soft enuf to pee. My best memories are from university. I'd usually just go to the shower and then pee after I'd gone soft. Other guys got relief in the same ways. As a middle-aged male, I still sometimes jack-off for relief, but I now more often just head for the bathroom, and I'm usually soft enuf to pee by the time I get there.
While I never saw my dad hard, my children have occasionally seen me hard, and I've seen my son hard as well. We never treated it as a big deal. They're now in their 20s now and seem to have grown up OK despite seeing the occasional wood.
I am currently 51 years old and while growing up I saw my father naked on many occassions. Both of us, at our respective ages, were active in high school athletics and we would work out at the local Y several times a week. I began to mature and sprout pubic hair the summer after the fifth grade. At the time, I had developed faster than most of my peers. I loved dispalying my body and hair distrubution at any possible time. My dad and I would shower together frequently while my mom utilized a bathroom alongside my two sisters. As I entered junior high I donned thick stomach and nipple hair and found myself shirtless whenever possible while in the compnay of my father. This bonding made me comfortable with myself and others and continues to this day!
Bro and I shared a bedroom and always saw each other's woodies in the morning. We saw Dad walk down the hall from their bedroom to the bathroom (past our room) every morning with either a full blown wood or half hangin' wood. He'd get a cup of coffee and walk back to his bedroom to dress for work. Sometimes it had gone down by then, sometimes not. We all saw each other hard in the mornings. Bro and I always jerked together but never caught Dad at it! I'm sure he did.
Morning nudity was commonplace in our kitchen. When it was hot weather (no a.c.) we watched TV nude too at night. But we were all guys, Mom had re-married and we lived with Dad. So I guess that made a difference.
Erections are totally natural. There's no reason to say anything. I'm middle-aged now, and they usually go soft within a minute or 2 of getting out'a bed, but there was a time when I had to wait 10-15 minutes before I could even take that morning pee.
Yes, it's completely normal for a male to have erections several times a night during sleep. It's nature's way of exercising the equipment- as are wet-dreams if he goes too long without an ejaculation. In fact, an old trick doctors used to determine if a man is truly (physically) impotent (er- 'erectile dysfunctioned' to use the new p-c term) is to have him put a special paper tape around his penis when he goes to bed. If the tape is broken when he wakes the next morning it proves his erectile system is physically working so that his problem is psychological rather than physiological.
We still hang out together, but he doesn't freeball anymore. (We become who we marry sometimes...'nuff said!) But when we go fishing or spend a week up at the lake together he freeballs under his cutoffs and when we're in the canoe out on the lake we usually lose the cutoffs and get an allover tan while we're out there. Brings us back to our childhood when things were so much simpler and free!
i am living at home and lil bro is my roomy. i stopped wearing underwear over a year ago..in fact i made a dew rag outta my last pair of boxers. my lil bro pitched his unders too and we both sleep in a t shirt and no pants. morning wood has to be no big deal. we're all guys in the house with another lil bro..only dad is allowed to walk around the place with nothing on..which is not often. he's 41 and real kool and tried going commando too..but he's a tighty whity dude
The 3 of us guys r up on the 3rd floor of our house and can be hosin around up there. It was mom who has caught me in the house with nothin on telling me to put on some pants. Don't like her c'n me without something on anyway.
Hey Guy thats awsome and cool that you live like that i have the vey same child hood that you have as kid we slept in the nude but had to get dressed to leave our room our mom was there at the time when parents divorced my mom went back to spain and me and 2 older bros lived and stayed with dad. my dads brother ahd to move in so we all slept nude but was no point to go and put our shorts on when we are all men i saw many woodies in the morning when i waould be in the shitter y dad or bro or uncle would come in to brush teeth soforth. its cool that we had that male bonding
yes, I live with my dad and three brothers in texas where it is always hot. We all sleep naked and usually eat breakfeast nake before going to school. My brothers and i all share one room. I am am the oldest at 17. I always have a hugh hardon that wakes me up. If i dont jerk off i will have it till breakfeast. My 15 year old brother sometime have morning wood also. We usualy just joke about it and make fun off our younger borthers. my dad sometimes will have a hard on also but he never says anything about it.
I obviously am older now (41) so my mornin woody is usually gone before I am awake enough to notice. I have noticed now that I am not sleeping nude (current circumstances) that I seem to be having a lot more wet dreams. Randomly I wake up with the silver dollar sized wet spot..lol Before when sleeping nude never noticed as often? N E way Little B is 4 and when I get him up for showers in the am. he is always sportin wood. Its funny cause out of time restraints I have taught him not to get caught but pee in the shower while waiting for the water to warm up.. I know.. ya prob think gross but it gets washed down anyway..lol He pees with his little wood and doesn't seem to notice or understand things are bigger than normal. I dont think he sees me "hard" often more semi if n e thing. We shower together several times a week when time is of essence. We were sleeping in the same bed but he has decided to sleep nude now and so I put on shorts if in the same room.. It used to be him in pj's and me in the buff.
I am btw allowing him to become a naturist like myself. We dont have as much time now that he is in school alone so its a whole lot less now a days.
He hasn't caught onto fballing yet. Randomly he will. He doesn't mind going through the day with no undies if in his pj shorts or...
when mom and dad split up after my brother was born my dad raised us to be total freeballers like him.so we are used to seeing each other naked around the house and of course lots of woodies. they just seem natural for us.
we had a few intense email conversations, and I haven't heard from you since....
is everything ok??
I obviously can tell you still refuse to become "normal" and wear undies like everyone else....lol
(by normal I mean what society deems normal and proper, although most of us on here know that just because uw is normal doesn't mean its the most comfortable or best thing to wear over our genitalia and butt cheeks....)
lastly caleb if you forget I am email@example.com through email...
From Freeballing Nate Who insanely
loves the freedom and comfort of freeballing in LOOSE Sweatpants!!!!!!!!!!
When I wake up "with wood", I know it's going to be a good day. Unfortunately, as time has progressd, it can also mean it's going to be time for a "sitdown affair", too. In prior times, before "wood" was such a popular term, we called it a "p___ hard". You peed and it went away.
But, I regularly wake up hard, so that proves that everything's working as designed, which makes me smile. It also means that if I've been under the weather (no wood), I'm well and ready to "conquer the world" again.
I'm sure there are some who would seriously frown upon nudity in an all-male household, including morning wood being seen AND not being hidden. That y'all are so casual with it all is GREAT. Takes the snickering and "Did you see ____?" comments out of the mix too, for a much more healthy view of male sexuality.
Perhaps our country would be more healthy if everybody looked better naked? I found out when I went to college that I slept much better when I slept nude . . . morning wood and all.
I have always been curious as to why this is such a big deal for guys - not having one myself I guess i cant understand - but seriously...
At least to the extent ive been around it seems like a pretty natural and pretty consistent thing to happen. It happens to my boys and isnt that unusual actually. In fact sometimes it seems like its more commonly that way. They dont seem to mind - i've never said anything about it.
It happens. To me its a lot like nudity - it doesnt necessarily mean sex, but thank goodness when it does lol. No one assumes if its cold and my breasts are a little more "pert" that its offensive or that i'm ready for sex - same when I was breastfeeding. I did get more attention, I must admit, but i dont think anyone jumped to conclusions.
So - if I can ask - why is being seen like this such a big issue for guys?
I guess guys find it unsettling when they don't have full control of their bodies. Since we associate an erection with sex and being horny it suggest that we are being horny at an inappropriate time- when in fact we aren't thinking of sex at all.
But it's not just guys with this problem, young women today become embarrassed if their nipples get hard at school or other public places and show through their clothes. There's various terms teens use- pokies, highbeams, etc but these days it's considered an embarrassing thing.
And not just teens- TV studios are cold at times because a lot of AC is used to compensate for the heat of the lighting so female 'talent' (as we called them) often put nip-pads in their bras to prevent pokies from showing on air.
I have to go with Nat's "Woodies and Pokies" observation. For me, I just consider the morning "wood" a natural thing and go about my business. I appreciate the comparison with the more "pert" appearance in cooler weather. Makes perfect sense to ask about that parallel concept.
The best thing is that your boys are going to far better adjusted than the vast majority of young guys in the current generation.
To me it is all a matter of manliness and the ability to wear it well so early in the day. For most, it certainly isn't about sex but often can lead that way, especially for the young who haven't yet gotten the whole picture of God's gift to them in the form of their maleness and all that entails. A little tease or a yank here and there is pretty common and reinforces one's sexuality as well as one's maleness. It's great to be a guy.
I never saw my dad with "morning wood" since he always woke up before the rest of us but one night I had a nice view of his wood just the same. He had "gone to bed" which meant he'd be in my parents room for an hr or so jacking off to his porn magazines before falling asleep, I snuck outside for a cigarette. I had only been outside a few minutes when the house phone rang which was very loud but when I attempted to go through the front door I realized I was locked out. My dad would be PISSED if he had to get up to answer the phone and I didn't want to deal with his attitude so I ran to the side door which lead to the main hall, too late because my dad was coming out of his room toward the kitchen near the door I was just entering.
I could tell he had quickly thrown on an old pair of shorts he didn't bother to look at before putting on because they were too short, especially due to the fact his cock was raging hard. The shorts were so bulged in the front they couldn't contain his dick which was even poking out of the top! Of course he got to the phone first and was so pissed off I doubt he even noticed or cared his cock was poking out of his shorts and obviously rock hard.
Lifting Weights while Waiting for Morning Wood to Subside
February 7 2013, 9:12 PM
One time I had an odd surprise while waiting for morning wood to subside to the point where I could pee. I had my bathroom downstairs off the TV room and just before a small bedroom I had made into a weight room. My wife had the bedroom upstairs besides the bathroom she used.
It was early, the alarm went off and I had to get up. I was groggy, barely conscious and stumbled out of bed in the darkness to head downstairs -- going pee was number one on my agenda as I really needed to go. Being a nude sleeper I was nude and I also had a major erection which at the moment didn't interest me in the slightest. When I got to the toilet I found peeing to be physically impossible -- couldn't even point at the toilet to begin with. So I decided while waiting for my hard-on to go away I would slip into the next room and do a few bench-presses to pass the time.
So I did about four slow and steady regular heavy weight presses. But as I began the fifth rep I got the barbell about halfway up when I felt a sudden weakness overcome me, making me struggle to complete elevating the bar. And at the same moment I felt a large plop of semen land on my abdomen - what a surprise! I looked down and saw that my erection was starting to fade. My penis was still dripping slightly and I could swear that it was looking smug as if to say, "OK, I've gotten what I need, you can go pee, now!"
Since then I've learned that some of the abdominal muscular contractions done during a bench press are similar to those done leading up to a regular ejaculation. My body was ready/in need and I had unintentionally accommodated it. Our bodies are amazing and continue to bring surprises -- some of them nice ones like this one. I never had an orgasm by benchpress again but I am prepared to be surprised sometime by something else.