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People staring at your crotch

May 19 2002 at 4:41 PM
Tom  (no login)
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How many of you have caught people staring at your crotch bulges? It happens to me all the time. Co-workers, friends, neighbors, and strangers frequently look at my crotch. The men who stare outnumber the women.

When I switched from briefs to boxers as a teenager, the stares used to embarrass the heck out of me. Over the years, I have gotten used to it. Since 1999, I have not worn underwear. For the crotch watcher, there is little visual difference between a boxer wearer and a freeballer, so people are probably not aware that I do not wear undershorts.

Have any of you other freeballers noticed people looking at your crotch bulges? How do you handle the unwanted attention?

 
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Few!

May 19 2002, 5:55 PM 

Maybe I'm overly conscious of having a modest package and just think that few would think I had anything abnormal, but I seldom detect that anyone's staring at my crotch. Having freeballed since age 11, I also have no reason to think that any recent change in clothing makes me more vulnerable to visual scoping by others.

 
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Tom
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Started Young

May 19 2002, 9:22 PM 

You gave up wearing underwear at an early age. What influenced you to try going commando?

 
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Just kewl

May 20 2002, 10:56 AM 

You may not believe this, but it was my love of 501s. My mum gave me control of my clothing budget, and the first thing I did was go out and buy a pair of 501s, which I'd wanted for awhile. My mum hadn't done it because she would've had to go to a "jeans store" downtown. Anyway, I loved the buttons and I just thought they were so ideal for going without UW. I wore nothin' but 501s, including cut-offs in summer, until my late 20s. I've since begun freeballin' nearly 100% of the time.

 
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(Login trashywil)
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why not?

August 22 2003, 9:47 PM 

I've never worn underwear or sox, and love the feel of it, and have always trashed and ripped up my short shorts so my ass is always out and a good deal of my dick i9s too! a lot of people look and a lot of people make rude comments. if they don't like it, DONT' LOOK!SOME GUYS THINK I'M JUST A TRASHY WHORE, BUT I'M NOT ! i just lke to show my stuff! i wish the kids now cut up theirs shorts like 1982; wouldn't there be some thing to look at then

 
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Guy
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People staring

May 19 2002, 7:48 PM 

Well, you must be incredibly endowed with a snake down one pants leg or spend most of your time tenting out your britches! Alas, I am not as well endowed as all that, and freeballing for me is, essentially, for comfort. There is an element of exhibitionism in me, but not that often. Handling the unwanted attention to one's crotch is probably something I'll never have to worry about....but lucky you!

Guy

 
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Tom
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Try not to show

May 19 2002, 9:32 PM 

I do not consider myself an exhibitionist. My soft cock varies in length from 6" to 7", but I do attempt to minimize the bulge by wearing full cut and pleatd pants. I freeball for comfort and convenience. If it happens to show, there is nothing else that I can do about it. If I was to wear boxer shorts, the problem would still be there. Briefs are out of the question.

 
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Guy
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Re: Try not to show

May 20 2002, 4:26 AM 

I can understand why briefs would be out of the question, both for containment and for comfort. Again, I must reply, "lucky you." <g>

 
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double standard?

May 20 2002, 6:47 PM 

I have always wondered why when it comes to women that it is considered proper dress to wear a fancy underwire bra that enhances the breasts, pulling them forward, and padding them so that they show more. Most of the time looking rather aftifical and fake, but likewise many women go through great lengths to make sure their breasts are the proper shape and size in their clothing

BUT the same thing does not apply for men? Men are always self-consious about showing anything down below, and will go to great lengths to make sure the front of their trousers is absloutley flat as if they didn't have anything down there! Why isn't it acceptable for men to show sexual organs, or at least a profile of their presence. Part of the move to boxer shorts seems to be stemmed from men afraid that briefs make them show too much

With that being said, I noticed one of my clients appeared to be wearing boxer-briefs, or some other type of support garment underneath his dress slacks. They seemed to artifically pull everything up and forward and made a noticable bulge in the fly area of his dress slacks. No real details or shape was detectable, but his trousers came out about 2 inches or so between his beltline, and his crotch, sorta like a woman in a "wonderbra"

 
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Maybe it's what's proper?

May 20 2002, 11:40 PM 

I'm just being discursive, but maybe comparing what a woman does above the belt line isn't comparable to what a man does below it. The current PC theory is that female breasts are not sex organs. Nor are men's pecs despite the fact that many men feature them. Men's - and women's - genitals are definitely sex organs. Some guys do what they can to feature them even though clothed. Wearin' shorts that push them outward is one way of doin' it. So do some women. Some of us, me included, just try to be comfortable. For me that includes not being concerned about their size or their apparent size - or being concerned about them one way or the other. I'm comfortable freeballin', and I'm comfortable being nude. My genital size is average, and they serve me well, giving me no end of pleasure. I admire big cocks, but am also content that mine's average.

 
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Oscar
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Re: double standard?

May 24 2002, 2:50 PM 

I agree...It doesn't seem "fair" that women are allowed (and expected) to show their breasts and to accentuate their size and shape, but guys are not allowed to show the smallest bulge "down there" as if we didn't have a cock and two balls that make for a sizable bulge in most guys...

As for breasts not being sexual organs, yes, that might be true, but in the collective mind of most men they are a major sexual attraction. So, even if they technically are not sexual organs, they do serve as a strong sexual attraction to most guys and as a sexual advertisement.

I freeball all the time, and people(both guys and girls) stare at guys' crotches regardless of if they are freeballing or not. Girls just like to look there as much as guys like to look at girls breasts (even if many would not admit it) and guys, both gay and straight look there too. Gays for the obvious reasons and straights (again, even if they would not admit it most of the time) because we men are always curious about the "competition" and are always trying to figure out "if the other guy is bigger or smaller than me".

 
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new FB'er
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staring

May 24 2002, 10:34 PM 

While it may be for different reasons,I think some of the staring comes from trying to determine what kind of UW is being worn, if any.

Since starting to FB myself, I have become more concious of what I can see of what other are wearing (or not wearing as the case may be)....

 
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Stephen
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Boxers make me show MORE

December 15 2013, 11:18 AM 

I disagree about boxers hiding more than briefs. When I'm wearing boxers, you can see my dick and balls in my pants, and YES, I do get looks, both men and women. I sometimes shift or sit/stand in such a way so that they can get a better look and look away from them, so that they can look at my crotch without getting caught doing it. Only thing though is that it's a turn on to know someone's checking out my crotch, so I start to get aroused. Then I get embarrassed and shift so they can't see, that is unless I want to meet them happy.gif

 
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Toby
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old thread resurrected !!!

December 15 2013, 4:04 PM 

Great to see your post, Stephen, thanks for writing this up.

But this is a thread from 2002, ELEVEN YEARS ago !!!

 
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Alexsport
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Re: Boxers make me show MORE

January 24 2014, 12:45 PM 

Actually I think there isn't much difference between freeballing and wearing boxers for the person watching...in both cases the dick and balls can be perfectly visible through the pant fabric

 
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People staring

May 20 2002, 10:11 AM 

The only time I knew for sure someone was looking at my crotch was when a co-worker told me my fly was opened. When I told him it wasn't, after discreetly checking, he apologized and mentioned there was a bulge. After telling him that "of course, there is - I'm a man", I asked him why he was staring at my crotch anyway. That embarrased him so much, I had a good laugh at his expense.

 
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Who said it was unwanted

May 20 2002, 5:40 PM 

I have seen men and women staring at my crotch but I love it. It really gives me a thrill when people check me out. If i do catch someone looking I usually adjust my package and smile at the guy. A few timjes I have gotten a great date out of it. Don't fight it If you are big enough for people to notice your package be proud.

 
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I show less

May 20 2002, 6:38 PM 

now that I am freeballing than when I wore briefs. I typically wore the european style bikini briefs. These typically pulled everything up front and mage a decent bulge. I'm a grower, not a shower, and when I freeball, there is absloutely nothing bulging. It all hangs down between my legs and doesn't tent up my pants at all. I wish I did show a little bit more, and had the attention youh ave. I wear tighter than average pants too

 
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Buddy
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Re: People staring at your crotch

May 21 2002, 9:54 AM 

Perhaps the reason ur not wearin underwear is because it feels better down there..i think it's normal to check u out with some curiosity down there..but they shouldn't stare..it's their fault for makin u feel uncomfortable bout havin a big penis..it's hard to go unnoticed sometimes when u go dick in jeans..even if ur not hung dude.

 
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Anonymous
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I agree with Buddy

May 21 2002, 11:26 AM 

No one should feel uncomfortable about his dick and balls--whatever their size. I am not all that big, but at times I have noticed people eyeing my crotch--even when wearing underwear. Some pants highlight this part of the anatomy more than others and it is natural to look. Even men check each other out, yes, even straight guys. Don't ever let someone make you feel bad about your body!

 
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Re: I agree with Buddy

December 18 2013, 11:31 AM 

I do it, not to be disrespectful or perverted but I find myself being a crotch watcher.

 
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Re: I agree with Buddy

January 19 2014, 6:15 PM 

Me too, my eyes uncontrollably go there on men and women. Of course if a woman, boobs also. Especially if a man is in sweats and you can see the outline more clearly.

 
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Tim
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Rules

December 17 2013, 1:43 PM 

Yes, this is an old thread, but, obviously, a current interest. Current rule says that a new thread should be started, but I'm a bit lazy at this juncture, and have a comment.

I FB and don't necessarily try to hide my stuff, which is average. I'm also uncut but enjoy pulling my skin back, and it usually stays, and do my coed classes that way. I wear thin shorts, more on the "fitted" side, so it clings a bit and my bulge is pretty obvious. I got the idea of wearing oversized compression shorts from this site and it has worked well for me. I don't "flop" but I do bounce, when doing some of the jumping exercise. My class consists mostly of women. The other guys wear the typical wide-legged shorts. The women wear what women usually wear and it runs the gamut of exercise clothing, mostly conservative.

But back to the topic of staring. I'm usually at the front of the class and in front of me is a full-room wall mirror, so I see all the gals behind me. I don't know if they look at my bulge, maybe so, maybe not. It's pretty obvious that I bulge though, and many times with some shaft and head shape. During the course of the various exercise, we might be lying down and opening up the legs... all a part of keeping fit.

When done exercising, we sometimes do some social stuff, just talking. So that's when I might notice some staring at my package by staff, other guys, other gals. It's all OK, and I seem to detect friendly smiles. I don't know what they are thinking, but I sense it is not anything negative. I don't pay any real attention to it, but inside, I have a sense of pride and acceptance. Pride, because I've got something there and, acceptance, because all us guys have stuff there and we are in an environment where everyone knows it and it's OK to show a little.

For exercising, it's best to be free, comfortable, and not constricted. Would that all guys can do this all the time. I do notice other guys, but most of them at the gym seem to be as described in this post.

 
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Re: Rules

December 17 2013, 4:37 PM 

I stare at any crotch whether male or female. I love to see what is there. If male and you see the outline, I dont see a problem. Women show their breasts and delight in it. We know they are there and we know what guys have between their legs. Why should we be offended. I freeball but if I had the choice I would live nude. A nudist colony or tropical island would be great.

 
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Re: Old Thread Rule

December 17 2013, 6:58 PM 

The "old thread" rule came about to placate those who didn't like it when the thread format was changed from chronologic order to "last post" order. Both formats have good and bad points but on balance most members preferred the "last post" order because it keeps popular topics at the top rather than having them slip down and off the front page.

But this rule is violated frequently. I don't understand how someone who replies to a question asked in 2002 thinks the poster is likely to still be here to see his reply 11 years later but if the threads isn't too long and something that may be of general interest to current posters I usually leave it be.

. . . . .

 
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I love . . .

December 28 2013, 2:44 PM 

. . . the way you handle this site, Nat! I hope the other guys tell you from time to time, also; I don't say it often enough.

It also is interesting to read 11-year-old comments that are as fresh as yesterday's. And today's.

 
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Thanks

January 12 2014, 9:41 PM 

Appreciate the kind words, Mike.

Now if only this job paid a little better! wink.gif

. . . . .

 
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Ant22
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Staring

December 19 2013, 4:07 AM 

For me glancing is ok girls or guys but there is definitely a lot of staring and even studying which is unwanted and its nothing to do with FB they do it whenever they get chance.
Try this sit in a prominent place café, public transport, library any busy place now read a book, magazine etc
Make sure you are aware what is going on around you ie only pretending to read no need for crotch to be clearly visible they will look under tables and out of the side of their eyes.
Some people come closer for better look.
Grey colour is best it gets them hoping.
occasionally you can attract a whole crowd like a meeting of waitresses by your table.
Even if your out with partner don't put them off.
Has anyone else experienced this ?

 
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Tom
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No

December 21 2013, 1:46 AM 

Not exactly. When I get looks, they're not from the super young crowd but more from the middle age people, and more guys than gals. In FB mode, I bulge and never hang out because I don't wear the baggy shorts and mine are the five inch variety, sometimes longer.


 
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Andy
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what the...?

December 27 2013, 1:02 PM 

I've been freeballing in sweats at the gym lately. Since I'm a long distance bike rider and the shorts I wear for that show everything, especially at rest stops, I don't think much about having a visible penis line since every guy getting off a bike has a hardon of some kind. But in the locker room of the gym I'm occasionally getting looks of surprise when the bulge becomes pronounced as I stretch to put on my shirt or jacket. It's not like I'm tenting the pants and most of the men there, some naked, some not, are in much better shape than me and since I am straight, I am a little perplexed at the attention I am getting.

 
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They can't take it away from you

December 31 2013, 12:27 PM 

I notice people and i have noticed people over the years looking and some staring at my crotch. Sometime to the point that I think..it should be them that be embarrassing but automatically when someone starring at you you start to observe yourself, if i forget to unzip my pants, or something goofy on my shorts, etc...

Over the years, i am over it! I think the fewer people are free balling, the better chance that people think that those that kind of let it hang lose are something to stare at. I got them at school, gym, shopping, airport. I got smiles, friendly conversation, and even an offer, lol. I could take it as offensive but I think the world has enough problem than i am worry about other people want to grab my crotch -- so if they want to stare let them be... every one in awhile if i am in the good moods, i give those people a show -- now let's see who will be have a red face... wink.gif

Light up!! and enjoy life wink.gif

Free ball is one the way i enjoy my life. I hope you all have a VERY HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!

 
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Greg
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Stare all you want

December 31 2013, 2:16 PM 

My dick shape shows often. I like the showiness. I feel more of a man. I don't notice staring very much mainly because I'm busy doing my own thing (I'm not in school anymore and I don't work at a job anymore). When people do stare, and I notice, I just walk a little prouder and I'm happier, so I might smile. I've never had a negative response... never. Even in crowded places, like hunting shows or at sports games... never had a negative. I have had several accidental (I think) touchings of my package in a crowd... each time was humorous because a guy or gal knows exactly what a package feels like. In one instance the gal who touched me said "Sorry", then gave me the biggest smile and grin. All I could say was, "No problem." It was a fun experience that I wish would happen more. In crowded aisles, where one has to turn sideways to squeeze by someone else, I have been known to press my bulge across a lady's bottom. For some uncanny reason, a lady knows immediately what's touching her. It's never been negative and once elicited a smile. With someone more familiar, when their hand was resting on a counter, I accidentally put my bulge on the back of their hand as I leaned forward on the counter. Again, it's never been negative and again, women know. Mind you, I do not do this on purpose... these things just happen occasionally whether or not you freeball. It's just that when you freeball, there's only that one layer of fabric between your dick and the rest of the world and, well, things like these happen. And if your dick shape shows, it's because that one layer of material is thin. Anyway, it's been a fun year. By the way, when wearing long pants, I usually wear specialized UW for hygiene purposes... still allow lots of hanging freedom and showiness, and super thin and airy to give my boys plenty of wiggle room. I wear C or U technology so my package stands proud. In situations like those mentioned earlier, there's even a more pronounce reaction because my whole package is front and center and pretty obvious to someone touching it. One of these days someone is going to want to feel even more... what a wonderful day that will be! lol happy.gif.

 
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mathias23
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special underwear

January 16 2014, 4:54 PM 

Hello Greg, I was just reading your post and you made me curious, what kind of special underwear do you wear under long shorts.
Thanks in advance

 
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Ant22
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Touching By Accident

January 23 2014, 10:23 AM 

No accident
One Busy Friday night in my local bar I am squeezing to get through to the wash room making slow progress when I feel a hand pushing its way between my knees from behind I open my knees and let it through the hand comes up and grabs my package gently groping for around 10 secs, could tell she was enjoying.
I turned to see the culprit disappear into the crowd with a beaming smile.
Shame she never said Hi!

 
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Ant22
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Visibility

January 10 2014, 3:45 AM 

One day I am walking into town and come to a crossing green man lights up and I cross
A guy crossing in the other direction says to his friend its not retail its see tale
I think he was pleased because the wind was pressing my pants tight up against my package

 
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Walter
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Your post reminds me of something from my past

January 12 2014, 12:06 PM 

When I was 17, I used to bag groceries.

One time, I was wearing, white briefs, tan pants, and the usual white apron.

It rained very hard and I kept taking groceries outside.

My manager came to me and suggested I take a break, dry off, and get a dark apron.

I asked why.

He said I should go to the bathroom and look in a mirror.

When I did, I learned that my wet apron, pants, and underpants became see though. Everything, including the color or my pubic hair was completely visible as if I was totally naked.

When I came out, he said he ignored it until he heard what he thinks was a 7 year old girl ask her mom what is that and point at my crotch.

Apparently, everyone looked that day.

However, no cashiers or other employees ever mentioned it.

I am sure they all looked but don't want to admit it.

 
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Ant22
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Re: Your post reminds me of something from my past

January 16 2014, 9:04 AM 

I am sure a few will have had a very good look
Most people the "crotch watches that is" when they get a hint of package they don't let on that they have a view but they will hover trying for more or try to find a position for a better look, Café Bus Train it happens all the time.
In bars they will ask if they can join you or just start talking "chatting you up" look for delight on their face.
Go to same Bar/Care next week with underwear and watch faces look mystified? where did his package go.
Its all good fun!



 
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Interesting but Embarrassing story

January 18 2014, 11:56 AM 

wow thats quite an embarrassing story you told walter

I bet you were glad you at least had some uw on and briefs too, though I guess it wouldnt have mattered if you were freeballing anyways....you just would have seen more....

though I bet your boss would have not be happy to see you werent wearing uw.....he couldnt say much to you being see through and in briefs (it wasnt your fault you were see through) but it would have been your fault you would have chosen not to wear any uw

did you fb back then? did you ever freeball to work?
did you from then on wear darker colored briefs to work?

how old are you now?


Underwear???Where????
Bye Now

Nathan is LOVING the breeze and comfort of swinging freely under red loose unlined trackpants.....

Freeballing Nate

 
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Walter
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Response to Nate

January 24 2014, 12:19 PM 

Nate, everything was so see through. i don't remember seeing anything but my wet and naked genitals and pubic hair.

I am 51 now.




 
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