I am now a full-time freeballer! Recently, I've stopped wearing underwear at work too. Sounds ridiculous, but I decided that I didn't care if anyone could see the outline of my cock under my suit-pants. I'm not porno-hung, but it is noticeable. To be honest, I love seeing that another guy freeballing and it totally gets me hard. I live in Washington DC, and see that many guys have the same, free-swinging outline. Maybe they're in boxers, but I'm hoping it's freeballing!
I was wondering if there are other nine-to-fivers out there that also freeball under their suits... and any tips you'd like to share. ((I wish we could post pics!!)) Naturally, comments from any freeballer are always welcome since we're all part of the same club!!
Great for you, DC!!! I have f/balled since 1995; while teaching both at younger grades and now at the university level...so comfortable and never any problems. I did wear cargo shorts often in warmer months while teaching~~~just was "aware" and careful how I sat or squatted. Also doing some p/t retail work at upscale store...still freeballing and see a f/b customer or two once in awhile...esp. when they bend down to look at mdse. on lower shelves!
Enjoy!! I assume you sleep bare-ass too. Clothes are last thing I put on each day before I leave the house.
I began freeballing when I started college in 1962, and think most likely full time about a year later. Didn't own any underwear from that time. One exception is when I have been in community plays, and wear underwear for costume changes behind stage, but that is it. That usually comes off before I go home that night, otherwise fulltime!!
Congrats DC!!! I am so pleased you are enjoying the most excellent freedom. That was my challenge when I started full-time was to let go and have nothing under my suit pants. I have a nine to five job(and later most often), and the best tip I have is just do it. Once I let go of my self-created worries and put on the suit pants, then it was all great. Been that way for almost three years; much less time than most of the guys on the forum. However, I am glad it was "better late than never" for my full-time freeballing lifestyle.
Being a senior engineer in aeronautics, I am also working in suits.
I also started full time only recently.
Indeed I have been freeballing since child however, not at work.
I started without underwear at work on and off from time to time a few years ago, especially when traveling abroad. A couple years ago I totally left underwear and went full time freeballing in summer and in winter in office, or outside .
Wish I did it much earlier in my professionnel life.
I din't have any problem with it at this time, and it's so much more comfortable.
I think that's fantastic. You'll get over any fallacies about accidental exposure or other people noticing a bulge or outline in no time. I think we all go through that in the beginning, but it's the most natural thing in the world. Like Dave, I also work in education and dress business casual; slacks Monday thru Thursday and jeans on Friday. I haven't worn or owned any underwear for 20+ years.
I also freeball full time and obviously freeball at work.
I work as a tourist guide in a relatively hot climate and drive as well as guide my tourists around.I have been guiding for fifteen years.Relatively early on in my guiding career I started do develop small fungal spots in my groin area.Nothing serious,the spots disappeared a few days after using a medical cream.I happened to see a lady dermatologist about a totally different problem and mentioned my groin problem to her.She suggested that I stop wearing tight underpants and wear loose underpants or nothing.She said that there was nothing wrong in freeballing provided a high standard of hygiene was maintained.
I was already a part freeballer so started freeballing at first in work situations during very hot weather and within a relatively short time became a full timer.I obviously do not wear revealing shorts or jeans.My fungal problem disappeared and has not bothered me since I started to freeball for work.
Part timers pluck up the courage to become fulltimers,it will become a way of life for you!
I too have started freeballing at work. Used to only do it at home, but noticed another co-worker freeballing one day. Started this past summer with the heat, now very comfortable and confident. Now there are 3-4 of us that freeball
As for suit pants, in the center of the crotch area, there is soft material on most of my better suits. According to my tailor that is there to comfort your balls from the inseam, and suits are meant to freeball in. I know this because my tailor asked me which side I usually hung. I was surprised by the question which got us into a conversation on freeballing... according to him, lots of guys do it when out for an evening, much like women going commando so as to not show any pantyline. He does prefer men wear undergear while trying on suits, and that I do.
What used to be a slow dance is now called "grinding", the ladies smile when their man gets hard, easy access is appreciated.
Other time I noticed lots of freeballers was at a hockey game. When using the washroom, freeballers are much quicker as we just whip it out, no fumbling with belts and undergear.
When we go traveling, wife and I both go commando, less to pack, easier to "play"
Rekindles our relationship big time! 30 years and she's still my smiling bride.
for a quick update - on the Metro today, a saw a guy watching the outline of my cock today under my suitpants. I just smiled when he looked up at me. He smiled back and brushed the side of his zipper at his semi-erection. I could totally see that he, too, was freeballing! It started getting me hard -- and I didn't try to hide it! Nice way to start the day!
This message has been edited by DCfreeballer from IP address 184.108.40.206 on Nov 24, 2009 12:28 PM
I don't normally wear suits at work, but I do freeball full-time. I normally wear "business casual" (whatever that means) khaki pants. No problems with suits when I need them for job interviews or other special occasions.
I'm not sure what the hangup is with freeballing in suits. I mean, they're still pants, and they are usually dark in color, making things less obvious and not more when compared with other pants. I really don't think that I could tell if a man were freeballing in a suit (or any other pants) vs. wearing boxers, anyway. The only way that I have found to tell would be to look for underwear seams or visible butt crack or underwear.
I don't own a suit or,indeed, dress pants so 100% freeballing is no problem as my trousers are either made of cotton or artificial fabric and can be put through the wash every couple of days or so. Suits, especially tailor made ones, are often made of higher quality fabrics such as wool so how do you guys deal with the laundering of these?
I was a fulltime freeballer for 6 years until last year when I started a job where I had to wear a suit. I've gone commando in suits before so this was no big deal. After 2 weeks of doing it, I felt that it wasn't very sanitary to be wearing the same pair of trousers for 5 days in a row with no underwear! So I'm now part time again
Anyway, recently I've been trying to go back more to wearing no underwear under my suit. We now have dress down Fridays so, what I've been doing is, wearing my suit Wednesday and Thursday. Then having Friday, Saturday and Sunday to let it air. Then wearing the same suit on Monday and Tuesday. Then changing the suit for Wednesday etc. I've still not managed to go 24/7 full time but it's a start!
I think it just helps to have several suits or pairs of trousers suitable for work so you never wear things for days in a row. That way things have a chance to air. Suits and formal clothes tend to be relatively loose-fitting, allowing good circulation of air, so it's not like underwear which practically sticks to your body. However, you will inevitably need to take things to the dry cleaner more frequently than if you wear underwear.
Hi, thats what i'm trying to do now too. I have a couple of suit pants which are tailored to be a good fit at the crotch area. I thought it would look neater instead of being too baggy. It looks good and but i cant wear boxers since the extra material would just really really show under. And i would hate to have to wear briefs after having gone without them for so long. I too tend to show a bulge, kinda like a snake down my left leg but only when i get hard. I have a PA too but it doesnt show that obviously as i'm uncut and the ring is usually covered by my foreskin. I realise that its hard to avoid getting drips after going to the toilet and its best to either change a pair everyday or to air them like what u said after wearing a pair for 2 or 3 days max.
Hey I had a PA for like 8 years and was always in a suit at work (90's). PA or not I always
shake the dick & pat the head dry with toilet paper/paper towel before putting back in the pants. This keeps pee spot from showing in trousers without underwear - just part of the protocol of never wearing underwear. I always wear looser trousers with a long crotch to give the dick/balls room to flop freely. It looks much more natural and certainly feels better.
Ah, I see. I may have to go tailor some new dress pants for work. Any other tips or hints on what i should tell my tailor or request him to do for the pants? The last time i did a pair of pants i tried asking him to add some material to prevent my balls from rubbing against the inseam too much but he said he doesnt do it.
1. The laundry issue
2. Suit pants are a bit rough and too thin. They are not very comfortable especially when they get stuck in you butt. Cotton undies are much more comfy
3. I think it is a bit rude and unprofessional at work. Dressing conservatively at work seems to be the best course of action.
These are my opinions only, so please keep the nasty attacks to a mimimun
I was a teaching professional for 33 years and the last 12-15 years also freeballed. I understand about being dressed professionally and nice and I felt I always was....dress pants somedays; mostly khakis or cargo shorts (it was elementary school teaching). I knew I was freeballing and was comfortable and still felt professional. My point, I guess, is you can be a freeballer and still be professional in your attire.
In my own mind - and I hope many others' as well - I worked as a professional my entire working career. I wore suits or slacks and a sports jacket or something similar for no less than 75-80% of my work time. Never once did I wear UW beneath my suits. I was no less professional for it. I knew others who did likewise. Professional is in how one approaches his work, not whether wearing UW or not.
I agree completely with Jeffery. I wore dress clothes/suit to work for about 15 of my work years - and I am still working. I never wore underwear of any kind for even one day during that time period. Of course I haven't worn underwear for even one day since my teens. This is a function of not owning any underwear and how I acted or act at work has nothing to do with the fact that my butt is bare under my pants.
I don't think wearing underwear is intrinsically more professional than not wearing them. Underwear, whether you are wearing it or not wearing it, should not be a distraction in the work environment. If the overall effect of your freeballing is that people spend more time looking at the bulge in your pants than your face or whatever you are trying to present, then you probably should start wearing underwear. On the other hand, if you are thinking to yourself all day how uncomfortable your underwear is, then that is a distraction as well and you should probably stop wearing underwear.
Many comments in the past about about freeballing in suits focused on having pants tailored so as to minimize distracting others with your freeballing, so others being able to see that you are freeballing need not be an issue. Even in non-tailored pants I don't think I have a remarkable bulge and I am above average in size. Being a distraction to others is probably not an issue for most guys.
Being a distraction to oneself is another story. You've expressed psychological discomfort about freeballing in public even casually. For you it might be unprofessional to freeball at work because you'd spend the day thinking how uncomfortable you were rather than doing your job. Probably the only reason you could imagine freeballing to work is for some kinky thrill and kinky thrills are not what most of us are paid for. That's fair enough. However, many of us here might feel as uncomfortable wearing underwear as you feels not wearing them, so wearing underwear might make for a less productive employee.
As for being rude, I would agree if one were dressing in a way that distracted others, but assuming that people are freeballing discretely I can't see why it would be rude or unprofessional.
As a pastor as well as a freeballer, I have to admit there were times while in seminary that I contemplated wearing underwear simply to make sure that I never inadvertently made people uncomfortable. Then I realized that I would have a bulge whether I wore underwear or not.
The issue was never whether it was immoral or wrong or unprofessional to go without underwear but whether or not people would take offense. I was lumping it with why I wear underwear to the gym--to avoid any slip-outs or other embarrassing situations. But in long pants that is not an issue.
I have enjoyed this thread because it has made me think. I do believe that some people stop wearing underwear because of the thrill of it. If getting your libido jazzed is your reason to go without underwear then perhaps that would interfere with your work.
However, if you are like (what I would guess to be) the majority of us who go without for the comfort and ease of it, then heading to work underwearless should not be an issue at all.
I came to work FB for the first time last Friday (on a quasi-dare from a "penpal") Since then I've only worn underwear to work once (and HATED IT!!!). Today I'm commando in a business suit for the first time. it feels great, so great, in fact, that I've had to deal with an erection almost the entire day. Not that this is a problem, of course!!