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About showing dick and dick shape

December 11 2012 at 1:37 PM
Tom  (no login)
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I'm continuing a thread about one of psychological parts of freeballing. The original thread was entitled, "Do you want to show?" and is found at:

http://www.network54.com/Forum/143108/message/1340899921/Do+you+want+to+show-

I'm continuing in this thread because the other one is 6-months' old.

Bottom line is that your start out freeballing in secret, but the practice takes off in different directions... as many directions and as many secret motivations as there are guys who do it. For me, I pick clothing, swim-wear, gym-wear, and play-wear based on freeballing and how much my clothing will reveal of my "package." For me, the whole aspect of other people seeing me and seeing my package, is stimulating and produces all sorts of feelings of manhood. I have grown to enjoy those feelings.

I now frequently dress so that things show a bit. I don't wear transparent clothing, but definitely, with the right lighting, you can see my package. And, without the backlighting or intense front lighting, you can see shaft shape and that beautiful shape of the head lol. I love the look of that shape in the mirror. The gals in the gym seem to enjoy that look too as I sometimes see them look and smile.

 
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Nat
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Re: About showing dick and dick shape

December 11 2012, 2:35 PM 

I never dressed to show nor did I dress to hide. I had a visible bulge as most guys did especially in the '70s when snug-fitting pants were the style. I just accepted it as normal- the way women's breasts make a bulge. We didn't have the internet back then to talk about such things but I really don't think people thought much about it.

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Buckley
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Re: About showing dick and dick shape

December 11 2012, 5:53 PM 

I don't see many freeballers in real life (or rather, I probably do see some but don't notice that they are). But in terms of the variety of freeballing pictures posted here, they seem to fall into 3 main categories:
1. seeing the shape of the genitals through clothing (like you've been discussing)
2. genitals actually peeking out
3. sagging.
(Of course, those "3 main categories" could be expanded into at least 6 or 7 categories by subdividing them and/or adding other categories.)

 
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Calvin Lam
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Re: About showing dick and dick shape

December 14 2012, 2:41 PM 

For me, I don't want to offend people. So I avoid showing. Slight bulge line is OK I think, I'm a guy who has a penis anyway but if someone notice that I bet he/she is on purpose "looking" for it because my package isn't very big. And I'm good at hiding hardons, I think.

 
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Bob (in USA)
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Re: About showing dick and dick shape

December 15 2012, 2:32 PM 

Much like Nat, I never dress to show or hide anything. I enjoy freeballing as a way of life. I wear clothing at the office that is appropriate for the office, I wear casual clothing where that is called for, and when I get home I generally don't wear anything. Freeballing is how I choose to dress and it's comfort management.


    
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Eric
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Re: About showing dick and dick shape

December 16 2012, 8:21 PM 

For me it really depends on what I'm going to be doing for the day as to whether I want any to show, anything from a tight pair of jeans all the way to sagging a good bit

 
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Josh the Jock
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Nothing wrong with that

December 16 2012, 11:25 PM 

I agree that once you freeballing everyday -- it becomes second nature. And you gain better control as get more mature. (I would never be able to do it (FREEBALLING) in my early TEEN years since as far as i can remember, i had an issue with constant hardon. As a fully grown man now with better control but a man is still a man, some day you are happy than the other, meaning, your body response to the environment -- Dogs see food, they drooling -- so does the man, lol.

You can't hide much when you are happy when you are freeballing. So i think depend on situation, time and place. Sometime i just let it go and have to think that I am not a center of the universe -- not everyone is looking at me right now -- so act natural is the best policy. I have found that most of the time in my case, the audience were surprise yes but seems "ok" to "happy" to see it.

Josh the Jock

http://kodijamesfreeballing.blogspot.com/

P.S. As you can see from my blog, i am not afraid to show -- if someone want to look for it, you can somewhat imagine what i have underneath there.
However, I certainly not going around flaunting it in front of people face, lol.

 
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Slomo
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Re: Nothing wrong with that

December 17 2012, 8:45 AM 

Oh man--the length of those shorts! What have you got that you're so anxious to hide?

 
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Buckley
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Re: Nothing wrong with that

December 17 2012, 5:21 PM 

Hi Josh. After seeing your blog with pics, I'm curious: are there any categories, in particular, that you think ought to be added to my "3 main categories" of freeballing pictures? (I say "in particular" because one could potentially make a long list of different categories.)

 
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Josh the Jock
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Three is fine

December 18 2012, 6:44 AM 

I think you cover them all in those 3 categories. I am not so good in categorize anything anyway, lol. I would say most of the time, i fall into your category #1. I hardly ever wear a soccer shorts these days so category 2 hardly ever happen to me. And I don't think I ever sagging (yet anyway!). I went to private school so we have uniform and I got that habit of dress properly. I think i have evolved a bit on my wardrobe....I go from Ralph Lauren look to more athletics like nike or under armour. Yes after been wearing loose clothing with underwear on now i like tights!

 
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Peter K
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See you had fun taking these pictures

December 17 2012, 8:47 PM 

Thanks for sharing these pictures with us. They're fun to watch, and by the load of drip you were creating I can see you were having a good time as well!

 
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Buckley
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Re: About showing dick and dick shape

April 27 2013, 9:08 PM 

Although I don't "dress to show" (or "dress to bulge" or whatever you want to call it), I'm curious what it would be like to wear one of these around town:

[linked image]?rt=nc

[linked image]

 
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ufbvb
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Re: About showing dick and dick shape

April 28 2013, 6:34 AM 

There is nothing shameful about having a bulge in your pants. So many men wear enhancing underwear that most people don't really notice. Whenever I have worn enhancing underwear I have found them very uncomfortable. The pouch is always too small and I feel crammed in there. I know they are producing stretchier fabric but I prefer to roam free.

 
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Josh the Jock
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Try it out! supporting undie that allow FREE BALL

April 28 2013, 9:29 AM 

The only way to know is to try it out. I think for my personal opinion that one is cover too much! Basically you won't be free ball any more when you wear one of those. If you want support and want to also free ball at the same time, may i Suggest:

[linked image]

I have a story or review of this on my blog -- just to encourage people to try it out.. It is the best solution i found yet to give your man part and your buns support while enjoy the freedom of freeballing. I can't post those pictures here, it won't be appropriate but you can check it out on my blog.

http://www.tumblr.com/blog/jockzzz

or

http://kodijamesfreeballing.blogspot.com/2013/04/the-best-solution-to-free-ball-in.html

It look strange but i can't emphasize how comfortable it it.

Josh the Jock

 
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Sean
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Re: Try it out! supporting undie that allow FREE BALL

April 28 2013, 9:51 AM 

Where can I get one of these! They look amazing! My balls when I wear underwear go close into my body and when I am free balling on a warm day my sack sticks to my leg. I could imagine this would help by causing less low hanging contact when your hot?

 
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Josh the Jock
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Here where you can get one

April 28 2013, 10:36 AM 


 
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Mume
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Enhancers

May 16 2013, 7:51 PM 

Take away the material and you have a ball enhancer. I sometimes wear them around town. It makes my package stand outward and the bulge is enhanced. Against any type of clothing, it feels great. I feel more "manly" wearing one. If you are wearing shorts, your package is front and center. When you sit, you get a very nice package that is very sensitive to every sensation. It's a nice way to dress in any social situation. I imaging it would work even when swimming though you seldom need any enhancers when swimming. I have never had a negative reaction in a social setting with mixed company.

 
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Tony Cavendish
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Show It Off

April 10 2015, 1:08 AM 

I read some of the responses to your 2012 post and was happy to see that there a lots of blokes who are freeballing not just because of comfort but also because they like to show off a bit. And I guess I was relieved a bit because I am one of those blokes, too. But I guess I sort of evolved as well because as a teenager I started freeballing for comfort – I was (and still am) a super thin, tall lad with a really big cock and finding underwear that fit was next to impossible. I found letting everything go free was much more comfortable than winding my cock up into a ball and squeezing it into briefs or jockstraps that were just way too uncomfortable; initially freeballing for me was 100% about comfort.

But I very quickly realized that whenever I freeballed (I was not full time until I was 18-19) I always got a lot of attention – well, more specifically my CROTCH got a lot of attention as my disproportionately big cock was available for all to see. And I liked it, it really got me excited and very turned on. And I guess as a thin, pale, sort of geeky lad who never got noticed (at least with my underwear on) being recognised for my one real asset in life (as I saw my cock when I was a teenager) made me feel really good. The downside back then was I had NO skill in controlling my erections (and I am really only slightly better now) so when I caught anyone checking out my freeballing crotch, I would get tuned on and then I would get hard – awkward at first to control a 10 inch erection in my shorts/jeans/trousers but it always felt good… and it was usually a treat for the man/woman checking me out.

So now, I would say I freeball at about 30% for comfort and 70% for exhibitionism. And I like it that way – and I bet you, do, too, mate. I say go for it and show it off and enjoy the attention. Every day I try to find new, different, sometimes daring (sometimes on the brink of illegal) and even nasty ways of showing the world that I am a freeballer and for me this experimentation is a huge part of the excitement. Experimenting with shorter shorts, tighter trousers, thinner fabrics, lighter coloured shorts/trousers/Speedos, crotch shaving, wider cockrings…. It’s so hot. Show it off, mate and let the world know you’re a freeballer!

 
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Allen
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My Ex girl friend

April 10 2015, 8:33 AM 

This girl I use to date when I was in the military never revealed how but she was able to tell from across the room weather someone was wearing actual briefs, boxer briefs, boxers or freeballing It in any kind of clothing or uniform. She also seemed to know who was circumcised or not if they freeballed or wore boxers. We use to joke around calling her X ray vision.

I'll never forget Christina Wiggins. She had such a good sense of humor. She didn't care weather or not people had underwear on but when they normally wore underwear and all the sudden showed up freeballing it she'd say something like "falling behind on laundry?" Then the conversation led to the noticing a lack of underwear.

Male soldiers who regularly wore underwear would go without here and there for 2 common reasons.

falling behind on laundry and being out of clean underwear or the weather was severely dry and really hot and they wanted added ventilation.

 
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Nat
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Terminology

April 10 2015, 11:56 AM 

Christina sounds like a very interesting girl, Allen, how did you let her get away?

There have always been people who went without underwear but before the Vietnam war there was no convenient term to describe the practice. As you note it was common for solider on commando missions far from laundry facilities in that hot humid climate to go without underwear so "going commando" became a euphemism among solders for going without underwear and this eventually came into general use in the states for the practice.

But "going commando" is an awkward and ambiguous term since it's also used describe a type of military operation. So in 1988 Tampa DJ Todd Clem coined the term "freeballing" which I decided was a better and more descriptive term to use for a forum about guys going underwear-free and I think this has mostly replaced the term "going commando".
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