I agree with you about Rudy making the comment about the girl's weight. First of all I didn't think she looked bad, but even if Rudy thought she needed to lose weight that is the kind of comment that should have been said to her in private without cameras around.
Pisses me off, people call girls that truthfully are thinner then most of the American public fat on national television and then pretend to be surprised when they develop an eating disorder.
I know a reality show has to have someone being "mean" on it for ratings (I don't know why but that seems the formula for reality shows)but some things cross the line.