I have no idea who Brandon K is but it doesn't speak to professionalism to have girls in the back or bringing his personal life into a place of business, a place that is suppose to be professional.
As far as the "top respected indy guys" I'm sure he isn't at the top of everyone's list. That is too broad a statement "the most respected of all indy wrestlers" because that is a matter of opinion. Like I said, I don't know who he is. I have nothing positive nor negative to say about the man (aside from the little tale you just spun) but I don't know who he is, never heard his name until now, so to say he is the most respected of all is an inaccurate statement.
These are all matters of opinions. You can say Jimmy McUnprofessional is the most respected guy in a locker room, doesn't mean it's true.
Leave your personal life at home. Be a professional. The locker room isn't for domestic issues, it's for professionalism.