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I Could use some adviceJuly 26 2008 at 7:33 PM | Shattered Heart |
| I just found out that my Husband of 13 years has been having an affair with 2 different women and both of them are claiming that they are pregnant with His babies. Without going into to much details, because I dont want to be Everyones gossip session... My first question....Who would be the BEST Lawyer to represent me? What kind of actions do I need to take???
Please Any Positive Information or commments would be greatly appreciated....God Bless You All :D Hugsssssss |
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Dr. Phillibuster
| Any Lawyer Will Do In This Case | July 26 2008, 9:18 PM |
If what you say is true honey about him having an affair with 2 women and impregnating both of them, it will not matter what lawyer you use because this would be a slam dunk case.Take him for all you can all at once if possible and then sever all ties with him forever if you can, providing you two don't have children together in which case you will have too bite the bullet on that one.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!! |
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Friend
| seek christian counseling | July 26 2008, 9:23 PM |
Always seek pastorial help in these regards because all believers have an advicate with the Father God which is Jesus Christ. He is your source of comfort in a sinful world. You are not alone, there are many people with the same problem and you have a right to be angry but the Bible says to sin not. I encourage you to keep your chin up you did nothing wrong, he did but it is forgivable under the right circumstances. |
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anonymous
| Re: seek christian counseling | July 26 2008, 9:32 PM |
Dont do this dump his sorry behind been there done this. It doesnt help and the guy never changes get out while you can i did and never looked back put up with it a long time before hand though because of kids and i seen it wasnt good for any of us. |
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Anon
| Re: I Could use some advice | July 26 2008, 11:13 PM |
A few questions.... Do you have kids together? Do you have proof that either or both women are pregnant? Is a divorce what you really want or are you just angry? My advice (If you don't have kids) is to divorce him. You should be able to get spousal support as well as half of all marital assests. Cut ties and be thankful that you only wasted 13 yrs. on his sorry backside. It may not seem like it now, but everything happens for a reason and if he would do this to you do you really want to be with him? There is a man out there for you (probably several) that will pamper you and be faithful so good riddance! If you have kids with him I STRONGLY urge you to try to keep a civil relationship for your kids sake and to remember that what he did was awful to you but hatred and nastiness would be a huge misfortune to your kids and that would be both of your faults. Limit your interaction with him and never speak negatively about him to your children. If he is a creep they will see that in their own time and they will love you that much more for not making them choose sides! Hope that helps! |
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guest
| Re: I Could use some advice | July 29 2008, 2:00 PM |
This is a very hard case and I wouldnt want to be in your shoes. I know alot of people stay together because of kids but sometimes that aint the best route, simply because you got to be happy yourself and you deserve someone who loves and honors you and they are out there sometimes you have to go threw some bad ones to get to the good ones.
To me your husband wasnt happy with no one, because if he had you and two others then he still wasnt happy and to me He should be old enough to know what consquences fooling around can cause.
do you all have kids together? WHat is he going to do about the other two women, Is he going to try to be a part of their lives if they are his?
You have alot of issues to get there, and if you do have children together then just try to get along with each other even if you do divorce, and make him pay you spousal and child support,go talk to an attorney to get some advice or if you want your marriage to work, maybe a marriage conselor, you and your husband is the only ones, can decide what your future holds. Best of luck. | |
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