First, SO sweet that Magnum puts his head on your shoulder! That is adorable!
Mikko likes to be close, but isn't all up in your business, which I like. If I go to bed early to read, he follows me to the bedroom, waits for me to get the covers ready, I get comfy, then he comes up and lays on the corner of the bed. When I was pregnant he would lay closer to me, and let me spoon with him
He doesn't anymore though. I don't torcher him, and MAKE him lay with his Mamma
We live in a split level, and he is always on the level we are, but doesn't have to be in the same room. He prefers the floor or his dog bed over the couch....
He humors us.
