hi ladies and gents....just wanna talk about love in this posting. say if you had a conversation with a fine A$$$$ brother( more than once over a number of months) and admired everything about him, had the same interests as him and didn't care what he looked like but admired him and had feelings for him anyway. while on the other hand, having thoughts like wanting to do all the things a man and woman are naturally allowed to do on the face of this planet in bed without physically hurting themselves.....would you call this love or lust? just need to know.....thanks.

love is a lot of things... only u urself can define if it's real or not. take a deep look at yourself and findout, it's better than getting someones advice because this comes from u

What I think is that if you you start of liking this person for what he is because of his personality and all that makes him what he is and not really what he looks like, this is the best start. This is what love really is, liking the person for what he is and not his looks, his social status or how he dresses. Love goes beyond physical attraction. I think what you have is love. Do things slowly. Get to really know him first because the last thing you want is to get hurt.
Good luck, and trust your instincts because it knows best.

Another person can't really tell if you're in love or if its just a physical attraction or the longing for someone. Its you who has to find this out.

In my opinion, love is something special. When you see that special someone you get all tingly and nervous and all high your heart beats faster and you can't imagine a better place than to be near to him but with that comes a certain respect and admiration towards that person. Its not love when you think about kissing him when you see him or imagine sleeping with him when you think about him. It involves a lot of emotions but you need to see first if he feels the same way coz you don't want you to get hurt.

You'll know when it hurts

Thanks everyone for all the responses.It hurts inside when I don't talk to him, I wish I could hear his voice every morning I wake up but he is a busy guy and we are apart and well I think it is love too but it's true there's two sides to a coin and well I guess I know what to do now....all Iwannado is just make him happy and I know now that it is love coz I had a think about it and I made up my mind that if I did happen to tell him and if he said he did not feel the same I would let him go coz his happiness means everything to me. thanks one and all..........

and so I'll still be the lady in waiting till he opens that door.

Well love to me is when you get this liklik butterfly feelings when you see this person.

You feel that you body is burning!

That's when you feel love, but I will leave the end of it to you. One must feel it to relate to it.

All the Best!

Well, there is a lot of speculations about the reality of "Love at first sight" but let me tell you something. Sometimes, you just know. You just know that you have met someone who makes your heart skip a beat everytime you see him/her or when you haven't talked for a day it seems like an eternity. Sometimes, you just know and I think God has given us a gift of sensing when we meet someone special.
My baby and I have only been together for 5 months but when ever I see him after a week, he still gets me like the first time we met.
Love is something you just know. But of course the rabbit sessions add to the attraction too.. lol

Cheers,
Tammy

THE BUTTERFLIES WILL NOT ALWAYS BE THERE, IT MAY FOR SOME, IT WILL BE THERE DURING THE TIME WHEN U FIRST START DATING (THE HONEYMOON PERIOD) AND THEN AS U START GETTING TO KNOW EACHOTHER U OPEN UP AND THE BICKERING STARTS, LITTLE THINGS ANNOY U AND U PUT UP WITH EACHOTHERS CRAP, YOU START THINKING TWICE ABOUT HIM/HER. AS YOU GO THROUGH THIS BUMPY ROAD IN UR RELATIONSHIP AND IN THE END YOU START MAKING EXCUSES FOR HIM/HER, HE'S/HER ANNOYING WAYS U FIND IT CUTE AND WHEN U PLAN UR FUTURE U INCLUDE HIM/HER IN IT WELL UR IN LOVE. YOU LOVE HIM/HER NO MATTER WHAT........

Well, 5 months is not a long time to get over someone's annoying habits. Well, the thing you have to remember is you bring annoying habits in the relationship also and that is just equally responsible for his loosing interest or pissy attitude. Well, after a while you just grow up to appreciate the fact that he has more positives than negatives and the reason you fell in love with him in the first place.
If you go into a relationship for other reasons other than love, it won't work beleieve me, it will most definately come back to bite you in the behind
BUt then again, we can't help who we fall in love with but we can most definately help who we allow to be a part of our lives.

cheers,
Tammy

Love is unconditional,
Love is when you know deep within you that if there ever should come a time where you had to give your life for that person, you would....
(I would die for you, everything I do, I do for you - Richard Marx).

Luv is when you let some bitch f@ck around in front of you but you say **** cause you dont wanna lose that person.