um going out with this hot 23 yr old girl and um 2o yrs old but her friends think um kind of cute !!!!!!!!!!!! and bieng a good guy i tend to take no notice of there comments and take them as jokes...but theres one of her friends that i think trys to hit on me , why yu say ? bcos everytime shes around me she comes up with all this nonsence stories about my girl and says staff like how do u really feel bout her, and would you like to go out with another girl besides her ???????? and that with all the joking and flirting she does, for sure gives me the imprestion that shes hitting me on the head and trying to tell me indirectly that she interested. but i really like my girl and i dont wont 2 cos something ugly but god help me how do i make up my mind when her friend is hot as hell man ! shes so hot that i just cant help but flirt with her to !!!!!!!!!!! but um doing all this when my girls not around , ok heres an example of a day in my life : um seating with my mates jokeing and looking at other students walk by and there she comes walking up to me an my mates, she tells me that she wants to tok for a sec , i follow her[but my real girl friends not there, probly in class doing studies or somewhere on campus] we go up to a bench an sit down just me an her then she starts cracking jokes with me bout neva seeing me on campus some days an wonders where av been hyding !! i reply bak with an even stupid answer that makes her laf loud by now um feeling abit captured by the way she looks at me, its not like mates but yu no that type of look that says : "i want yu !!!" so wat can i do when in my mind um thinkin : dayyyyam babe yo soooooo hot !!!!" and its not just a day shes done this its like maybe the 7th time !!!!!!! so man um lost um lost here what should i do ?

At this day and age with all the beauty products and the fashion that is available, every woman around you seem to look beautiful and the choice that you make to live with someone tends to be difficult. Yea, among all the beauty that you see all around you, only one can capture your heart and thats the one you should go for and leave behind the other things that tries to impede you from being with that person your heart desires.

Many people say, "follow your heart". I would add onto that by saying, that let every part of you move you to be with that person that you wanna be for the rest of your life. Friendship or shall i say boyfriend/girlfriend relationships are very healthy, because thats where you start to know someone and see if she matches your way of thinking and will she accept you as you are. Even then, in PNG, shall she love your family and will you do the same for her family? In relationships, you have to know the other person, and when you dont like what the other person, you can call it quits and move on with someone else in your life.

Flirting and trying to hit on someone are something that can only be driven by lust and i have seen it dont last long. Once you bed her, she will move on and dont even look back. She might even stick on and be an eye sore in your current relationship.

Friend you got a lot of things to think about right now, apart from your studies. Dont let woman ruin your studies, becoz woman will always be there in your life, but, study, once you screw up, there is no chance of getting back on your feet. Give priority to your studies and hang in there with your current GF and avoid all the flirting with the other so called hot chick. If you keep on juggling all this three things together, for sure it will have an impact on your studies and if your current GF finds out you are flirting with the other hot chick, you might end up in a serious conflict that will further disturb your studies.

My advise is, try and avoid the hot chick and hang in there with your current. However, if you feel you dont love your current GF, then tell her that and befriend the hot chick. That way, you are being fair to your current GF, rather than going at her back and hitting on her friend.

cheers

Go with your heart, not your eyes. If she is pushing hard to get your attention, its better to tell her in the face than going with her tactics. Remain true to your heart.