Okay, I'm a male I'm in my 20s, say between 22 and 26, I don't have a girl friend and I haven't been with one for the past five years, and I don't go messing around in night clubs. My brother is married, his got a lovely son, my little sister is also married and is expecting, and as for me well my relatives have declared me as the bachelor of the family. It's either I want to be in a relationship, or I want to be in a relationship but I don't know how the person I'm going out with would think or feel about me. May be I'm just scared, or, may be I don't have the time since I'm always busy .

Whats your opinion

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Mate its better to start socializing with ladies now. Your a grown boy. Dont wait till your 30 or so. If you're lucky you'll meet "Your Juliet" at the first go...Ino olsem bai yu marit nau yet nau yet. Pasin blo ol meri em narakain lo yumi ol boi. So get to know women before.........

MMD bro it seems to me that your in a normal range of bachelorism..but as normal as it seems you still want a women in your life at this stage . Well my diagnosis is that you let your job occupy so much of your love life ! well i dont have any pills to prescribe but i sugget you make it a must to dress well , groome well, be confident and try to go out to social gatherings like parties and other social events that you know will be attended by some pretty women of your type .

Dr william Bsc

Hi MMD, If your scared just remember that she is scared to. If you think that you don't know how she would feel about you, then let me ask you this have you told her how you feel about her?

If you don't have time or if you're always busy, it might be a good idea to ask your friends or colleagues to help set you up with a girl, there is nothing wrong with that and since they know you so well they would know of your preferences and the kind of girls you go for.

Cheers and happy dating:)

KE

It's time MMD for U to get going..Work,nor anything else can't even come close to being with that one special person for life..U need to get out there and meet people..
U will find her, and trust me U'll never find that kind of feeling in this world..Make sure she is the right one for U..Only True love from the both of U will last a lifetime..
It is awful to be alone..U can be in a crowd of thousands, and still be alone without that special person..So Go for it man..
Burgundy

Hello young man

All I can say to you is enjoy life to the fullest while you can now. You don't need to be in a relationship to be happy. Save up and take an overseas trip or something! Do something out of your comfort zone and you'll never look at life the same way again.

I am in my 30s now and have enjoyed life to the fullest! I am happily married and had no regrets whatsoever... When I was 23 years, my parents thought of me getting married like all my other Papua New Guinea female friends and start having children. Being the eldest in my family, I feel that I need to do something to be great and appreciated by my family and my community.

I decided not to and took a year off to travel! I was lucky because I saved enough since leaving school and didn't make it to national high school or uni like my high school friends, instead i started working part time and selling stuffs here and there saving up. By the time I was 23 years old virgin, I thought my life was over but instead I applied for the Holiday Visa with UK and took off to London (my first overseas trip!!) for twelve months.

When I got back to Lae in 2003, my perception of life changed and I started working hard and always aiming for the best in life. I now succesfully own a business with my husband whom I married two years ago.

I always help people in my village from time to time and have always been a role model for young women in my community. I will always be grateful to God for giving me the judgement of appreciating valuing life as it comes.

THE REASON I AM TELLING YOU MY STORY IS THAT SO THAT YOU COULD GET INSPIRE TO DO SOMETHING FOR YOURSELF. IF YOU CAN'T AFFORD TO TRAVEL OVERSEAS, THAN DO SOMETHING EXTRA ORDINARY WHERE YOU DON'T NORMALLY DO BEFORE IN YOUR LIFE. BUT TAKE TIME IN MARRIAGE AND COMMITMENTS! THERE'S MORE TO LIFE THAN WHERE YOU ARE RIGHT NOW.

All the Best and good luck!!

Kumul B'lo Morobe

I do agree with "Live Life To Tha Fullest"..After U do something good for Urself , U will find that U matter..
As I said B4, U seem to be a very good man, its time for U too have some happiness..Go for it..Miracles will happen to U, I still belive this one..
Good Luck and Blessings
Burgundy