For those who are curious and current practitioners of "Partner Swapping in PNG, may find below tips helpful,,,

A lot of couples claim that partner swapping is healthy for their relationship because like it or not, routine and boredom always settles in any long-term relationship. By engaging in ‘swapping with consent’ there’s always spice in the relationship. Many couples also claim it prevents ‘infidelity’, which is technically defined as a ‘breach of shared relationship values’.
With the above explanation, infidelity only occurs because one does NOT want the other to have sex with others. With partner swapping or swapping with consent, there is no rule or boundary breached so it’s ok.
Swapping vs. Threesomes
Partner swapping is different from threesomes because the latter usually indicates a couple taking in a 3rd party. With swapping, you (or your partner) is solely out there having sex with another person.
Swapping Benefits
If it’s truly a mutual decision, partner swapping can pose many benefits to your relationship. For one, if you and your partner are bi-curious, swapping enables you to explore these sides of your personalities without having to ‘expose’ the other to it.
Another benefit is the fact that you be more sexually adventurous. For example, say that you really want to try backdoor sex and your partner is equally adamant NOT to try it, swapping enables you to go ahead and try this without forcing your girlfriend / wife to engage in it.
Swapping is also a sex education experience. With the above example, it’s about trying something you really want but what about trying things you may never have even considered? For example, you and your partner NEVER watch adult movies together or do any form of role-playing. You engage in partner swapping and this other sexual partner introduces you to the joys of role-playing. Now you can go home to your partner and introduce a new sexual spice into your relationship!
Swapping Considerations
If you’re thinking of swapping, do take the following into consideration because while I’m all for sexual experimentation, I only advocate it if it’s something that furthers or enhances your relationship with your lover. And swapping is something that can seriously harm your relationship, than do it good.
Realize that something is lacking. Whatever way you look at it, agreeing to partner swapping is accepting the fact that something is missing in your relationship as it stands today. Think long and hard if swapping will indeed fill that hole.
Detachment. Sex is a very intimate activity. You must consider that swapping may in fact pull you and your partner apart from each other (and into the arms of your new partner) instead of you coming home with something that will bring you closer together.
Mull it over and be sure to make an informed and mutual decision!

While we agreed with a lot of things you said about the benefits of partner swapping, or swing as is called sometimes, esp. in the first part of you discussion, we really think the last finishing bit of it is very true to some sense. We both will advise that if you and your wife or partner have problems already with your relationship "do not" enter into partner swap, swing or 3 or 4sums as a way to make a relationship more intimate and stronger, coz it will only make it more worse than good. "ONLY" enter into couple swap or swing when both of you know yous have a great loving, bonding and strong relationship already...so only go on partner swap or do 3 or 4sum "as an adventure", and "NOT" as a remedy to an already unstable or problematic marriage or relationship.

Furthermore, good swapping and 3 or 4sum experience and benefits will only be realised for youu both if, prior to actual action, you and your partner know what exactly you both want and are after in that out-of-your-marriage lifestyle. So it means going into the game with your terms and conditions, and your partner(s) too will and must come with theirs. So you all play by the rules, and if a partner overstep your bounds and limits, just tell him/her to leave...there must be respect for each other's likes and dislikes.

Further to the above point, you both must know what yous are after..if you both or just one of yous are after "love",,,then god must save you both coz that's a wrong motive. You both or one of yous must not pursue love in that lifestyle coz it will turn out disastrous for the relationship and marriage you both already have. Also one of yous must never try to negotiate something for himself or herself with the other partner(s)..that'd be cheating and again, is disastrous. For most experienced couple who have been into swapping, like us, we only go after enhenced or heightened sexual pleasure,,that bit of spice so we can bring back into our own bedroom...something out-of-marriage that we do not have to create that spark and reignite the passion we both use to have for each other when we first met during our young days. For us, Jack always is horny and over-satisfied to see Helen enjoys sex with another guy or gal, and vice-versa. It's a great feeling we need would have felt and experienced...it opens the door for an intimate communication between Jack and Helen about everything, small or big, about their famiily and relationship; it gives added confidence for Helen to openly discuss her mind about matters, including sexual, with Jack...truly something she never did before.

To be honest, we both are now on another level in our loving for each other..coz we have experienced greater and heightened sexual pleasure...somthing only the lucky ones get to feel and experience. We are sure everyone can feel and experience it too...just follow the rules of the game and you both will be on your way to greater and enhenced sexual pleasure.

Jack and Helen

Couldn't agree more!

your mind is so soft.

what did the bible tells us. if u think u are a christian then, pls do reconsider your thoughts.


frustrated

Wife swapping and or sex outside of marriage is something straight out of Soddom and Gomorrah. It is sinful and violates GOD's law irrespective of whether it is by consent or not. Please do not propagate this sinful path as there are more to lose than gain from this promiscous behaviour. It can lead to permanent damage to one's life and the faithfulness issue will no longer be there for those who practice it. Even those who think this practice has helped them are not honest about the magnitude of damage this has caused to their lives, families and their minds.

Please stop this!

You Get to Live your life once, Why the F**k can't you live it. Swinging f**k ye!!! christians, i respect your beliefs but honestly, get a life... don't preach to us, i've lived with people of all different cultures and have read the bible from start to finish....