Hi fellow Papua New Guinean.
I am male really in need your advice regarding friendship.

I have girlfriend whom I really love the most of my life for last three months.
Also think about her and provide all she wants all the time but what happened yesterday was a sad news for me.

I came to work and she was sick and in the house.
She decide to text her old or new boy friend which I do not know.
That text came to me and I got the text which she send it to her boy friend.

Then she said all kind of thing to me and one word she said really hurts me deeply and I end that relationship. This is what she said to me, wanem part long body bilong me wanem kain olsem bilong Steve?

The Girl I love the most said that to me, I gave money, visa card and everything I gave to her and even take care of her parents and provide Bus fare for her parents. Her parents really want me to marry her but she hurts me deely by what she said,

Please advice me what I can do regarding that situation?

Thanks and God bless.

Response email to me.

buddy this is what it is..see the heading and the message before this..

Its only 3 months, and she is already saying things about you to her old/new boyfriend?? That is not a good sign. She could be someone who will continue to lie and cheat on you, while using you to support her family.

If you believe in the same God that all Christians believe in, then God has shown you that, the girl is not the right one for you by allowing that text message to pop up on your mobile phone.

Its not too late to call this relationship off.

There are many more fishes out there in the sea, and this one's just nibbled on your bait, so keep chucking your bait and continue fishing. The right one will come along.

Bro,

Forget about her. She is only using you for your money.
If she really loves you, she wouldn't say hurtful things to you the way she just did. There are alot of women like her these days. Very cunning & they only use men for their money. I think you deserve so much better than that. Find a woman who will appreciate you for you. Not for your wealth..
Forgive her, forget her, and move on! Em no wanpla meri tasol.
Someone much more better will come along...As long as you trust God, everything will fall in line!

Take care and hope you feel better soon..

Agudfrend :)

Bro such message like this help me alot.
I really appreciated all your remarks regarding above said situation.
You guys are really good and I am so thankful that I am proud Papua New Guinean with good friends and concern citizens out there to help out fellow mate.

May you all Be blessings to all and keep doing what is best for the people .

Thanks alot.

Bro,
I am sori about what happen...planti ol nicepla meri stap ya, you wonem samtin nice lo em tu..just dump her and look for some one who will have the same feelings for you !!

max

Mate, as one who has gone through what u r going thru, my advice to you is to get out now and dont look back for a second. Down that road is nothing but hurt and pain, if she cant see you for who you are then she doesnt deserve you and never will. Your love is strong, but she doesn't love you and she will not change, allow yourself to see her for what she really is and allow yourself to move on. It will be hard and you will want to go back to her but just stay away, its better that way.

Barata,

Lusim, lusim na lusim.Laif bai bagarap wantaim displea meri.Em i no laikim yu...she is there for pleasure only.

can someone translate this??? Cant understand this statement and how it would cause distress, "wanem part long body bilong me wanem kain olsem bilong Steve?"

I think he meant to to say "you" instead he put "me" coz he was referring to his own body....
So what I understand, he's gf told him that he was nothing like this Steve guy....she was comparing him to Steve, and after all that he did for her...man this would cause distress!