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If a PNG woman is sleeping and living with a married PNG man (waiting for a spousal visa to return home to his NON PNG family) for roughly 12 months then what should or could happen after the wife finds out. (I will mention that there are kids involved with the marriage.)Does the PNG woman have the right to him after 12 months of courtship or does the waiting wife and kids deserve him???
Please help!!!
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Then she's a hoe. He's married with a wife & kids and she's aware. Why complicate things for his innocent family??? I dislike bitches who use their pussy instead of their heads!!! Get a life of her own!!
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12 months of COURTSHIP!? 12 months of Courtship!? Woman yu are confused! More like 12 months of adultery. A stupid twit like you is the reason my mother got bashed up every night,why she wore make up to hide her blackend eyes, why she is missing her front teeth,why she had her hair pulled out of her head,why we would live of scraps & wear rags cos all dad's money was being eaten up by you.. Nobody would stand & watch their mother get bashed. You dont know how close I came to killing my own father & then would have got life in prison. I was small then & could do nothing. If it happend today... Tell me,can a child grow up stable in such an environment? Your actions affect innocent people too dummy. I'm lucky I didnt loose it. Now I'm doing ok. Some, on the other hand... Thankyou for sharing with us how you ruined someones life. You're a genious.
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Why in the world would a woman fool around with a man for up to twelve months knowing very well that he is a married man with a wife and kids? Well it is the woman who is cheating. She should have desisted in the early stages.
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I am sorry to read this, however it boils down to trust and trust means to be honest and say no to the temptation of cheating behind your partner, because what goes around comes around. This is all about repeating history and never forget that children are involved when desires becomes nimber one and over takes faithfullness.
For a few minutes pleasure it takes a life time to (live with it) damage that only hard work pyschologically takes healing but the scares remain.
What a tragedy. thanks anyway for sharing your pains or thoughts.
all the best
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I am still very much in-love with my PNG husband n our children still have hope that daddy is coming home. This OTHER woman informs me that he belongs to her n that "if anything, he wont escape alive! and he knows damn well too." She also tells me "remember, your talking to a black woman here..wer not easily swayed and we never give in without a fight..we get what we want!" Love is prejudice n neither am I!
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Love is blind,so they say. You cant see it but to the rest of us its clear you gota leave him. The best thing you can do for yourself is walk away,its also the worst thing you can do for him/them. He dont deserve you. He deserves a weak person like that bitch. You deserve better cos you are the better person. Sad story..
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So very true Too Shy...I think the best choice is for me to move on. If he loved me n the kids, he wouldnt have had an affair in the first place AND he wouldnt have let her contact me to ruin our marriage. At some degree he put ideas in her head for her to think she was THE wife (even though she knew about the kids n I).
Anyway I know I deserve better n I WILL find better. Thank u all for ur comments n advice....it really helped to open my eyes.
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Agree with you Hon, I also think its best that you move on. I'm sorry to hear that the kids are involved but there are some PNG woman who will do exactly as the one you just describe without thinking of the other woman especially if the MAN seem to have more than the average Joe financially.
cheers
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Let him go. Don't try to hold your husband back, let him go. If he feels you and the kids are important he wouldn't have done it. File a divorce and walk out of that relationship. If he comes back, sex will be a torture. Every night he is doing you, your mind will wonder if he did the other lady like that too,h did he suck her breast like that, did he lick her pusssy like that, did he kissed her buttt crack like that,... you won't help wondering ..so just divorce him and live with your dignity and a clear conscience.
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Just a question, what have you done or have not done that have lured him to another women? Ask him what he wants and give it to him make him stay at home. Do not make him run away from you.I can see that the fire between both of you have died hence you must add more fuel into your relationship and keep it burning and he will not run away in another womens arms.
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Sluts should learn to keep their legs shut and their hands off married men (VISE VERSA). Any man will **** around on his wife if given the chance, the wife doesn't have to give him any reason. If sluts are going to lay down and open their legs then any man ain't going to knock back easy pussy PMSL!
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