I'm pretty sure we've never met. I'm also pretty sure that we don't in any way know each other.
So stop being so familiar. As far as I'm concerned, anyone that wants to be mr. anonymous shouldn't be dropping first names like they're old chums. Besides, "Rafe" isn't even my name. If I'd have said "Hey, we're friends, feel free to call me.." it wouldn't have been that. You're not a friend, you're not an acquaintance, you're just some random, anonymous stranger that happens to post on one of the same message boards that I frequent.