Well Eefje, I'm all for getting more women on BFF too- and I think there are many women in the U.S. who *are* interested in topfreedom and would join this forum *if they only knew it existed!*- but they don't. About the only way anyone finds a forum like this is with a search engine like Google and Google only list forums that have a certain level of activity- so we have to have someone on here posting- even if it's men in order for women to even have a chance of finding it. So tell all your women friends and get them on here! The more women who are here, the less we men will have to carry the ball.