I mean the comments that people make hurt me becasue I don't want my mom to feel bad. But another problem that I was afraid to bring up that others have hinted does deal with my mom's new look. I mean it is kinda hard to look at my mom's new figure. I mean she is my mom and it wierd to see her like she is now. I don't think she thinks the clothes that she wears don't effect but they do, I mean it is hard to see your mom dress in a way that men make comments about and look at.