I have always believed that it doesn't matter what you wear, or how you wear your hair, but how you act that counts. I haven't seen too many women wearing the kinds of things I wear. I don't know if it is confidence on my part, or because I am a smart, brunette, sharp eyed female that allows me to get away with the stuff I do. I don't see my co-workers talking to my boss or school administration the way I do. Maybe I'm just ballsie?
Now...Question for you Wayne...Are you Hawaiian? Is that why you were able to get the real story?