If you read my post again you will see that I neither called you a misogynist, I said you had a tone that sounded misogynistic, and I was wondering why, nor did I say you caused your wifes infidelity, but rather wanted to know if you had maybe had some small part in it.
I am pro marriage, and pro family. I believe that unless a man or woman is abusing their spouse that they should stay together and work things out. I think marriage can be a battle at times and it is too easily thrown away when something goes haywire, these days. It shouldn't be thrown away. It should be nurtured and saved if at all possible.
You don't know me, and I always surprise the new comer because I am the resident devil's advocate. I am always more interested in the resons why someone asks a question than I am in the question itself. I don't know why, it is usually more interesting, I guess. But thats just me.