"I would only ask that 1). We treat each other with a mutual respect for the ideas expressed here; and 2). You have raised some interesting points in your post that I would like to research further before I respond to you. Is this acceptable to you?"
I hope I didn't sound like I was being disrespecful, I didn't intend to.
Feel free to respond any way you want, whenever you want. If you prefer, there's also email.