I agree with what you said about attitude. Many times a good attitude Can make up for "faulty looks". But it doesn't often. Unfortunately, People mosty jusge by looks on first impression. There was a party I went to a couple weeks ago that had an open band. I played guitar with them for a couple of jams. I've been playing for about 11 years. When we were all done many guys came up to me to complement my playing. Not one female said ANYTHING to me yet they were complimenting other guys on their playing. Since I didn't know these girls and neither did the guys playing, the only thing I can gather is that they didn't bother talking to me merely because of my size. This is somthing that has happened to me most of my life. It is the same with large women. Most guys will not talk to them merely because of their size. The only difference being that more men are attracted to fat women than women attracted to short men, attiude irrelevant.