I forgot to mention the most important quality of my boyfriend is his constant sense of humor and respect. Without that his good looks wouldn't be as appealing.
Others I've come across with good looks weren't appealing because they might have been rude, or lacked a sense of humor, or even the slightest hint of romance.
And, here's an interesting note...I haven't had but one fat guy flirt with me, and I disqualified him because he was talking up the fact that he was a cyclist, with a mountain bike. But when he came to meet me at the veloway, he showed up without a bike, and a body that looked like he'd never been on a bike. If he had been honest from the start he might have had a chance to get to know me, but he was a poser. So I took off on my bike and never saw him again. Left him sitting on his tail gate.