Well not uncomfortable as much as it's just difficult to give simple pat answers to complex questions when so much depends on unforeseeable circumstances. I remember when I was a young married I had "all the answers" about raising kids- only to find out they didn't work in real life and how little control a parent really has when kids become teens and develop their own social life. The more you try to control them the more rebellious they get- especially since most of the time they are away at school or out with friends where you have no control at all. But they never got into any serious trouble and all turned out to be successful well adjusted adults. . . . . .