Well I think we agree really- I agree that many boys and young men are the way you say- and I think you agree it's not really a good thing. Yes, today's young men are facing a situation men have never had before where they have lost many traditional advantages males have had in the past. But I'm saying doing crazy stunts and extreme displays of machismo is not the solution. The solution is to stop thinking in terms of male versus female- and think in terms of just "people". The most qualified person will get the jobs of the future irrespective of gender so if guys are concerned about being displaced by women- they should get a good education so they can compete equally with women in the world of today and tomorrow. But too many boys are not doing this.