Wow, you step out for a couple of months and the place goes crazy. Anyway, I almost never wear a bra and go without panties when wearing skirts, when I can. I mean, what's the point. There have also been times when I have been indiscreet, when I forget to be "lady-like" but my friends (mostly nudists or nude tolerant) aren't bothered and when I notice, I do "make adjustments". No one makes a big deal out of it and it doesn't really bother me one way or the other but I am not out to shock people or to get (or give) cheap thrills. I just have to pay attention more.