challenging?May 9 2002 at 8:31 AM
|joddie (no login)|
I have read a lot of the messages here and there seems to be a lingering question, Why do so many younger girls wear bra's?
When girls are just old enough to start understand things their mother gives them the impression that wearing a bra is the first step to becoming a real woman. She anxiously awaits the moment to get her first training bra and from there the cycle starts over. They are also told that any girl that didn't wear one was a slut or worse.
With thoughts like these put in their minds growing up there is no doubt why so many are bound to the bra. The mystery is, there are a lot of these same mothers that grew up in the 60's and 70's that gave up the bra's and went back to the tradition.
Now the challenge is to change that mentality. Most young women need a mentor, a woman with enough experience and knowledge to make them aware that these things are simply myths, and to help them understand the freedom and fun their missing out on. You won't look cheap unless you want to. That comes more from the presentation than the fact that you are braless or topfree.
We all need some input here. I know I have been an influence on a few women that quickly realized that this simple change in their life could be so pleasurable and exciting. There are a lot of examlpe setters here. How many of you have taken on the mentor role and what worked best for you? If you haven't yet , its time to take action. Make a few positive situations to get started and follow up regularly, try to have your student bring in a newbie with her.
The topfree parties is a wonderful idea. You need to make them a weekly or at least a monthly gathering but you also need to try to bring a new member in each time too. An annual party is not near enough.
Having a pizza delivered or staging a guy to drop in and inviting them in after the party is well under way is a good idea. The host should answer the door the first time but draw straws or something to open the door afterwards. Invite them in to meet everybody and don't let some of them run and hide, but a whole bunch of guys at first could be a bit tricky to keep control of at first. Keep the number of men to just a couple for a while. Whoever you choose to come over should know,it is simply to build the confidence of the women and the guy being the only guy at the topfree party. That would be an honor for most guys.
I also used the headlight game for a starter. Its kind of a dare game. Get 3 or 4 girls and drive around for a while. When you see a car with a burned out headlight the first one to call it has everyone else take something off. It usually isn't long until someone is topfree. You need to be prepared to be the first looser (or winner depending on how you see it) to set the example and insure the positive outcome.
After you are topfree the game can get more interesting if you want having the topfree one do something involving getting out of the car. It can be a quite challenging yet interesting game.
Lets get this going before summer is over and we wish we had sooner. It could be the greatest summer yet for a lot of old timers and newbies too.
I agree with you 100%, let's get going !
|May 9 2002, 10:40 AM |
You seem to have gathered a REAL insight into the topfree lifestyle movemnent, in a short time since I assume that you are rather young .. ? 20 something ?
The idea for the guy introduction is simply brillant, I
really like the concept !
I agree totally start small with one guy and work your way up to more in the future, keep it very comfortable and controllable for your own safety and security !
I have never heard of the headlight game but really seems like a lot of fun, I have to pass it along to my friends !
I push for weekly or biweekly topfree parties, backyard sunbathing days, (my favorite is topfree gardening) maybe for the slightly older ladies out there and for the younger set hit the " topfree beach " or make a topfree area at a friends house, ....
The cause is really helped by newbies and the ones like you and me and others REALLY need to encourage and promote the topfree often and try to attract new ladies
as much as possible ...
Questions, issues, concerns and even the " how do I get started in this " ... we need to be as helpful, supportive and mentor as many ladies out there !!
The biggest question that is most posed is the following :
How do I get started ?
Where do I go ?
Are there others out there ?
Do I talk about it with other ladies ?
The most concern is that I am the " only one " out there that feels this way, I don't know where to go, and I would be more happy with others ...
Lets get going !
topfree sisters unite !
Whats your story and/or history ? when did you get started ? what is your favorite topfree activity ?
questions most asked
|May 9 2002, 3:31 PM |
Here are a few views to work with.
1. Are there others out there?
Everyone reading this has the interest but few have the self confidence to take the next step. Even though the desire is there they won't participate because they are afraid of what others might think. Come out of your shell and push your comfort zone a bit. If they would all leave us a note to gather information from we might have a better idea of how to help women in general.
2. Do I talk about it with other ladies?
It might be an uncomfortable topic at first but talking about it is the first step to making it happen, how else will you get your piont across. You will have to ease into it with some women at first and be tactful but that is part of the excitement and the success will be the next.
3. How do I get started?
After you have the first interested woman you both find a newbie with a spark of interest and that leads to.
4. Where do you go?
The best place would be to one of your homes with a computer for the first time, and no men unless you want to order a pizza but then one of you two must answer the door topfree and make sure he is able to come in far enough to see everyone. Simply going over the messages on this board and discussing them will take a few hours. Before you adjourn your meeting always set a date,time and location and plan the following meeting and get everyone to try to bring a newbie. It will soon be time to invite the first guy then probably at the third meeting.
These could be called your pizza parties and everyone in your group would know what it ment. By moving the parties around and ordering from different pizza stores you wouldn't always get the same delivery guy. A variety of people is nice, you might even get a pizza delivery girl, but I would treat her the same way.
If you want to try the headlight game in the daytime you can always substitute things in the place of headlights such as colors and types to car or whatever suits your situation.
This will be the most auxillerating party you have ever had.
Have a blast,
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