Well, last week's question did get much response so I'll try again for this week.
How far is to far? How far would you take your topfreedomness? Is there any place that you would NOT go topfree and why? How far would you go to be allowed to be topfree? - face arrest? face ridicule? .... just how far would you go???
Encouraged by my boyfriend I try to experience new ways and activities to be topfree. Not only sunbathing topfree but walking barebreasted on the beach or pool or in the area around, swimming topfree, doing sport activities topfree, having a drink or meal at the beachbar or on the terrace topfree. Being around the house topfree, washing the car topfree, doing the garden topfree, barbecueing topfree, cleaning the windows topfree, opening the door topfree. Driving in the car topfree, getting out of the car topfree and relaxing on the parking lot, going to drive ins topfree, walking in the mountains topfree. Doing that I try to discover the limits. So that means I have to go further. Maybe parking the car and going topfree in a shop? Or going topfree to get the car filled at the gasstation? I don't think of being ridiculous or what others might think. I just love to be topfree and my bf loves it too. Until now I haven't been arrested or warned or whatever. Once we hired a convertible in California and drove around without the top so I enjoyed the sun on my bare breasts. One of the best experiences I had. Two police men noticed us and they just smiled. I think many people like what they see, some frown upon me or are perhaps jealous of my courage or of what I am showing. I do have rather nice firm breasts. I am proud of the way they look and I don't mind if people are looking. When I'm wearing a t-shirt without a bra they are watching as well. My boyfriend loves it when others can see me. It turns him on. I have to say that he's very muscular so maybe people will hesitate to bother us ! We noticed that me being topfree turns other people on as well. But that's okay for them and that doesn't bother me. I don't know where the limits are. I wish there were none. I just saw the pic of the girl with an open front dress or costume posted on the msc page. Wearing a dress like that would be awewome. Dressed but topless. Imagine the reactions when you turn around in a dress like that or when you take of your jacket ! Hope to wear a dress like that on my next birthday party.
I have written before that I was wodnering where the limits of topfree are. For me the rule is: if a man can go topfree there I can go topfree. But I saw a man walking without a shirt in the street and I was wodnering how people would react if it was a woman. But then again maybe it is not appropriate to walk without a top on the street no matter if you are a man or a woman.
I am from the Netherlands as I wrote before. In my country it is easy to go topfree on the beach,in pool, the park and on the boat. I have been topfree in the US at the beach and in the pool and even in islamic coutnries like Indonesia and Egypt (beach, pool and boat). Nobody told me to cover my breasts. In these countries I sometimes got a lot of attention outside the more touristic places. But I just don't care. I have never thougth about getting arrested or so.
Could you tell me please about your vacation to Egypt? Because me and my boyfriend like the beachlife and the topless and nude sunbathing, when we go abroad we always go to places where we can enjoy a week of topfree fun. We thought of going to Egypt (also to visit the pyramids) but we were not sure of the topfree ways of vacationing over there. Could you please let me know where you've been? You can mail me or post in on the forum. Thanks.
I think this is a good uni-sex question really. What public places would you MEN not go shirtless even though you can legally. I ask because it seems to me that men are more shy about being shirtless then they use to be. Like I remember seeing a lot more shirtless men at sporting events and public places 20 years ago then I do now. We should ask why that is.
I hope all of my questions are unisex and that both sexes will participate in the discussion(s).
Why more men don't go shirtless ---
Reason #1 --- Skin Cancer has become more of a known entity now.
Reason #2 --- Body Acceptance --- although not widely discussed, Body Acceptance issues among men is a GROWING problem. More men are concerned about how they look due to the recent prevelance of the "hunks" and how the media has shown women reacting to these "hunks". But you've got to remember that Elvis was a "... hunk of burning love".
Reason #3 --- fear of reprizal. As we become more ethicnical, we are becoming much more fearful of what our "neighbors" may do because of our actions. Its not all that un-common now for neighbor to be against neighbor. BRING BACK OUR NEIGHBORHOODS!
Speaking of which, I presently live in an Apartment Complex and do NOT know any of my neighbors... I'm going to make a concentrated effort to do something about that... we all should.
Another good question. For me, it's a matter of common sense, mixed with respect for others. As you know, I love to be naked outside as much as possible, primarily at the beach or pool, and I feel that those are absolutely appropriate places to do so. The idea of wearing "special garments" to lie in the sun or swim is just ridiculous...enjoy the warmth of the sun, but be sure to keep those "nasty" parts covered up. Enough already! Get naked and be done with it!
On the other hand, there are places and occasions where being topless is inappropriate for both guys and girls. In class, in church, in restaurants...you get the picture. Also, there are groups of people, mostly older, who will probably always be offended by nudity of any kind...it's simply not what they grew up with and will be hard for them to change at this point in their lives. Out of respect for these people, we need to be discreet in our nudity when in their company...again, a mixture of common sense and respect.
Finally, it's important for us to take advantage of any opportunity that we can to be as bare as possible and exercise our right to be comfortable within our own bodies. As an example, I was watching a summer league baseball game yesterday on a public field, and since it was in the low 90's and sunny, decided to shed some clothes and enjoy the day even more. As it was a mixed group of spectators ranging in age from 5 to 70, I left the stands and walked a short distance off to the side at the rear of the field area, took off my tank top and shorts, and lay out in just my g-string bottom which, after a few more minutes and no problems, I took off and spent about an hour naked under the sun. A few people walked past and, except for a few surprised looks, didn't register any annoyance or anything negative...one guy even gave me a "thumbs up" and yelled "Way to go, girl!" First time I've ever watched a baseball game naked before!
My point is simply that it was an opportunity to be first topless, then nude, in a relatively appropriate place without offending anyone, and I took advantage of it. Obviously, all it took was a little common sense to walk a short distance off and be respectful of others, and be ready to get dressed if people became offended of if I felt myself to be in jeopardy.
the closest thing to what you did was popping out the L breast for feeding my daughter and of course my son want some attention so he unbuttoned my blouse completly and popped out the R boob and played with it just enough to get it dripping and then he STOPPED !
sitting in the stands with my L boob out being sucked on and my R boob out " dripping milk " and my son laughing about it ...
wonder if I should have asked around if anyone needed Milk for their coffee !!