Actually interchanging the head gasket won't make any difference either way around. There is an oil restrictor press fit into the block, even on engines with the hydraulic rocker arms this hole is only like 3/32 of an inch or so. The hole in the gasket is about 3 times this size and is just over 3/8 inch diameter.
Even if what was said about the head gasket was true he now has mechanical rocker arms which require less oil so it doesn't matter either way.
You should be fine running both intake and exhaust lash at .008" It will be much quieter and will help keep the exhaust flow in the right proportion to the intake. I've ran mine at .006" intake and .008" exhaust for almost 3 years now and have never had a problem. It is better to have them slightly tight then slightly loose.
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