Belden Nama - Facebook sagaFebruary 7 2012 at 8:37 AM
|Sago Thorn |
Sex, lies and facebook - Updated
Is it appropriate for the Deputy Prime Minister of Papua New Guinea to trawl Facebook looking for extra-marital relationships, asks Sam Corcoran?
I've started calling the Deputy Prime Minister of Papua New Guinea, Belden the Ubiquitous.
'Here Belden, there Belden, everywhere
Although he has a plethora of portfolios and acting portfolios, one has eluded him, the Minister for Foreign Affairs.
Nevertheless, Belden the Ubiquitous has been engaging in 'Foreign Affairs' anyway extra-marital ones, using his facebook account. Is this conduct unbecoming of a leader of a Christian nation? You decide.
Michelle's story (Not her real name)
Early on Friday morning 25 November 2011 at around 3.45 a.m., Michelle's phone rang in her hotel room at Port Moresby's Airways hotel.
"Be ready in five minutes," instructed the gruff voice of the Deputy Prime Minister of Papua New Guinea.
"Why? What's happening?" she replied.
"I'm sending my driver to pick you up."
"I'm going to need a half an hour," countered Michelle. "I'm still in bed."
"No! You've got five minutes my driver will be there then, be ready" he said before hanging up.
The decision to comply with the summons was one of the worst judgment calls Michelle ever made. She describes what happened at the block of flats owned by Namah in the Port Moresby suburb of Gordons as the most sordid, degrading and humiliating episode she'd ever experienced and it was at the hands of the Deputy Prime Minister of the Christian nation of Papua New Guinea.
In the immediate aftermath of the 'incident' while Michelle was still at Gordons, obviously upset, Namah told Michelle that "
he had witnesses," although she'd accused him of nothing.
The incident left her shaken and frightened: angry at herself for being so naïve, angry at herself for being so starstruck by the position he had offered her by telephone from New Zealand and had confirmed at a Sydney meeting that she had left herself vulnerable. But more than anything else, she was profoundly grateful that she had survived the episode relatively unscathed at least physically.
The irony of the situation wasn't lost on her when, at breakfast that same morning, back at Airways Hotel, she was introduced to and spoke briefly with the Prime Minister, Peter O'Neill and a former Prime Minister, Sir Rabbie Namilu.
Also not lost on her was that she needed to get out of PNG the sooner the better. She forfeited her Qantas ticket to Sydney in favour of an earlier Virgin flight to Brisbane. When she was safely on the plane, she sent a text to Namah.
"The pen is mightier than the sword," it read. There was no reply
A couple of months prior
It was in September 2011 that Michelle first met Belden Namah via facebook.
She sent a 'friend request' he accepted and sent a personal note asking for her email and telephone number.
Namah asked if he could telephone her and whether she would be interested in meeting if he came to Sydney.
With indecent haste he started to sign off his facebook messages "with love" and calling her 'Darling'. She made light of it in their correspondence.
Once, in the early hours of the morning he'd telephoned to ask whether they could have sex before a scheduled dinner date in Sydney.
"No," was the reply.
"Why not?" he retorted
"Because I've never met you," she stated.
The enticements kept coming including a job offer as Namah's personal political and media advisor. He would put a down payment in her account of $AU50,000 and she could dictate her own terms, he said.
At the Novotel Hotel, Brighton Beach, Sydney on Saturday, 29 October 2011, they met and spoke of a possible personal relationship as well as the professional one. The Deputy Prime Minister assured Michelle that the one would not impact on the other. They shook hands on the deal.
To seal the deal, on November 19, 2011, Michelle took a direct flight from Sydney to Port Moresby. Would Belden be available to meet? He would - dinner that night at the Crowne Plaza Hotel.
In Port Moresby, Namah was nowhere to be found. He did not front parliament for the reading of the Women's Bill on 22/23 November. He was out of the country on business she found out when he phoned her from an airport in transit back to Port Moresby on the Wednesday. He would see her that night. But Belden Namah, was a 'no show'.
With Namah's history of unreliability (promises of meetings and phone calls that never eventuated, money that never materialised for jobs offered etc.), Michelle conceded defeat and accepted that the relationship either personal or professional wasn't meant to be.
She texted Namah wishing him all the best for the December court cases and brought forward the date of her departure from Sunday to Friday.
But it wasn't over:
Early on Friday morning at around 3.45 a.m., Michelle's phone rang
Michelle heard nothing more from Belden Namah until she published a retraction of all of the positive things she had said about him on facebook in a headline that read 'Mea Culpa -I was wrong'.
The response was swift his telephone call went unanswered:
"Please call me," he texted.
"What do you want?" she replied, also by text.
"Nothing," he wrote, but nevertheless went on to write further:
"I just want to say sorry, I was so drunk when you came. Please forgive me. I promise I will make up. I love you."
That was on the 26 November. He never has 'made it up',
Felicity's story (Not her real name)
The only reason Felicity had a Facebook page was to contribute to a chat group. Minimal details were on her 'info' page. She had no facebook friends
A spur of the moment decision saw her sending a 'friend request' to Belden Namah whose facebook friends numbered almost 5000.
Surprisingly, back came a note containing his personal email and newest mobile telephone number. He "looked forward" to hearing from her.
Politely, she asked:
"Do you give the number to all your facebook friends?" Your phone must really run hot."
He didn't - and said it was "luck" that he'd decided to this time.
Within less than a dozen messages, the Deputy Prime Minister of Papua New Guinea suggested that Felicity end her relationship with her boyfriend and "start" one with him. He was "a free man."
He persuaded Felicity to agree to meet him for the weekend in Sydney by offering to pay her double her weekend earnings. He offered to send her money ($2,000) through Western Union" for her ticket to Sydney from where she lived on the Gold Coast. She refused the cash but accepted his offer to send her a ticket
Felicity phoned Belden Namah on Wednesday, 25 January, she told him her arrangements were in place for the weekend.
"Not this weekend, next," he said in a procrastination manoeuvre familiar to Michelle.
Later, on facebook's messaging, he asked her what was to become of their arrangements?
"Send me the ticket," she said "and I will try to fit in with your dates." Adding: "Make it refundable in case I can't get away".
"Deal," he replied.
In less than a week, the Deputy Prime Minister of Papua New Guinea had offered a stranger on facebook a weekend in Sydney and $2,000 in cash, a two-week, all expenses paid holiday (with him). He'd offered to send her money to buy a phone that she could use for phoning only him (there was a problem with hers given that she shared a joint account with her boyfriend.) He was available to her by telephone "any time of the day or night".
At present, Felicity is still waiting for the airline ticket to emerge.
"I don't only say, I do," said Belden Namah to the mutineers at Taurama Barracks last week.
There are those that would beg to differ because they know better.
The Deputy Prime Minister of Papua New Guinea while stopping short of outright criminality has certainly been operating on the margins of decency with these women. People should expect that their national leaders have higher morals than those of an alley cat.
What's more, by his behaviour, the Deputy Prime Minister of Papua New Guinea has revealed himself a fool because the final irony to this story is that Michelle and Felicity are the same person.
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|February 7 2012, 11:01 AM |
Firstly, I pitied her but she hasnt told the whole truth. Like whats attractive about Namah that she sent him a friend request at the first place. For Namah to pick her randomly out of 5000 friends means that Namah must be browsing internet on his laptop the whole time. My guess is that seeing Namah as the deputy PM, she must have added something to allure him. And thus became the painful ordeal for her. In this way, it shows that she was after fame and money but it backfired on her.
Thus, I have to warn young ladies that the MPs and top shots have wives and kids already in place. Just because you are beautiful and educated formally doesnt mean that the men would lay off their first wives or whom we simply referred to as 'mama b'long pikinini' for you. You must have in mind that these were the women who stood with their men in the first place to build up their empire and it is quite difficult for them to shed them off that easily. So if you want to fill up the shoes of mistress and concubines where you could be easily shed off without any obligations then please feel free to contact them.