Chilam vs Anita
After 11 years and enduring setbacks, Anita and Chilam’s relationship have been enhanced. Currently, their marriage date has become the media’s attention. Facing everyone’s enthusiastic concern, Chilam says, "I’ll marry at 35." In comparison to most people, this pair of lovers has undergone more turbulence because both artistes are very popular in the entertainment circle. Furthermore, Anita’s fame is larger than Chilam’s. Previously, there were a lot of reports referred to him as "Anita’s b/f," and also said because of his girlfriend, he was thus able to acquire many acting opportunities. Such negative rumours prove to be the obstacles between the two.
So how did they manage to maintain their r/s? "Faithfulness." Coincidentally, both gave similar replies. Anita says that Chilam is very adorable. If a girl expresses her liking to him, he would tell her that he already has a g/f. Thus, whenever there are rumours of him and another actress, Anita is able to just shake it off with a "couldn’t be, " since she fully understands him. Emphasizing, Anita expressed her own devotion to Chilam as being the only one in her heart. A few years ago when Chilam visited Taiwan, Anita would deliver hot soup to him whenever she could afford the time. In the day when he went for promotions, Anita would remain in the hotel alone, without going outdoors. Excitedly, she would then await his return from work.
Chilam’s gentlemanly and Anita’s vivaciousness give others the feeling that they are very compatible. Although the HK media said that although unwedded, they were like husband and wife. Chilam admits that they do not have any plans for marriage yet. The main reason is that they are still young and wish to work for another few years. Another reason is that they have witnessed numerous buddies ending up in quarrels after marriage. In addition, his own parents had divorced and it was only later that they got together again, causing him to have a negative view of marriage. Exasperated, Chilam says, "I do not hope for marriage, but I would love to have my own family. I feel that communication is the most important thing between both parties. With communication, we can then remain a couple for a long time. He hopes to marry at 35, give birth to a boy and a girl and that they would then never part.
Anita is very supportive of Chilam’s decision of late marriage. She says, "we shall remain date for another 5 yrs."
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Posted on Aug 25, 2003, 10:50 AM from IP address 202.146.255.15