I know we're all a little annoyed w/ ChiLam now but mebbe he cldn't go visit her at that time 'cos he was also filming himself and cldn't get time off. Mebbe he was worried sick abt anita.
I think deep down he does love anita a lot but mebbe guys show it differently. Mebbe they think itz not macho to always talk abt his girlfren in a lovey dovey way to other pple & he doesn't need to do that in order to show his love. (Let's look at the bright side, k?)
But, i think men tend to be selfish. And I'm still worried for anita. U know i juz spent my entire evening yesterday talking to a gd fren of mine 'cos she was so upset w/ her b/f dragging on their relationship for so many yrs w/o making any decision on it. She doesn't know if she shd let go of it or not. Sigh! Why are men like dat? Is there any male fans here to give their perspective of things, pls?
Posted on Mar 4, 2004, 11:09 PM from IP address 202.156.13.46
