Because this discussion has left the point where it's helpful to anyone, I am asking that it end now. If it continues, I will delete the whole thread
Just to give an idea of where I stand on this issue. I have worked with players of varying degrees of ADD over the past 19 odd years. Do I think they should be treated differently? Yes. but I think every player should be treated differently because every player is different. Remember, you shouldn't treat every person the same, just treat every player person fairly and it works in the long run