Yes and a hero does not need to be compared to the lowest common denominator, to look good to me!
in my advanced age, i just steer away from users and takers, bu11sh1tters and particularly narcissists who live in their own little universe.
sorry for venting, Jim is dealing with his incredibly obtuse family today. they wanted his help with renovations and landscaping, in weather topping 115 degrees. if he comes out of this alive, i will promise myself the pleasure of bitch slapping someone someday.
just an example: one day i was earnestly trying to talk NICELY to one of them (the thickest sibling). i mentioned that he was pretty sick with a malaria relapse for a few days... blank stare... and i said "from viet nam."
she says, "oh he was never in viet nam".
at this point i turned my face blank and dropped it. i guess his FUNERAL ( he was a POW and they goofed and visited the family IN BIG BRIGHT UNIFORMS,) complete with caissons or whatever and guns firing... you know dingbat, when all those people in black stood around a GRAVE FOR CRYING OUT LOUD.... oh never mind.
right now the whole world is crying for a druggie musician, and my hero husband is boiling his brains...
anyway, every time i view some husband/wife, son/daughter, father/mother who is stunningly spoiled and demanding, even with people going hungry around us,
i think "I have 2 words for you, Hon. Homeless Shelter."
they need to either work in one or live in one to get their heads out of their