most gay people....

....ARE acting like what they are. They are acting like gay people. They did not choose this any more than you chose to be straight. Did you have the option to be gay? Why is it that gay people have that choice? The answer is simple, they have no choice. I am not talking about transexuals who chose to be the opposite sex, I am talking about living as a gay man or a gay woman. Very few gay people choose to have a sex change, because that is not what they are. As far as judgemental attitudes are concerned. that IS a choice.