to do what is best for your kid. These kids are use to these kind of situations. We have missed so many family events our family does not even think we are family anymore. Switched in the car from cleats to heels many days. Soccer people "get it" only those who don't play at the highest levels don't. Which is why the news picked it up. Our soccer lives are insanity to most people who can't understand why we have not been to church on a Sunday during May/June. Soccer folks understand that is during State Cup.