As the father of a D! women's soccer athlete just finishing her senior year, the journey is over...she has turned down a chance to play elsewhere, and her soccer shoes are retired.
As I write this, I am finally finished with this silly forum...I want to say that most of the information on this site is really useless.
From little kids soccer to club, to ODP, recruiting, college, most of what you read here is BS.
Just enjoy your kid's games, make sure they have fun, and appreciate the game. Everything else, who coaches who, who makes ODP, who gets a scholarship, is pretty petty stuff.
Instead of going back and forth on here, you would be better served by taking action on your own and leave the whining and back biting to the readers on here.
By the way, most of the coaches who are so worshiped on this and the other forum, are in it for their own ego, not in the interest of your player.