you don't get the point

Of course I've said harsh and rude things. But I'm not holding auditions for an opera company/program/YAP!! the point I made was that when conducting business, it wouldn't kill you to be nice. I'm not the one conducting said business---if I were and THEN was an asshole, that would make me a hypocrite. But posting here is not a professional venture, sitting behind an audition table at a PTS is.