I am once-divorced...my husband got killed in a car wreck during the divorce..and after that my in-laws became my friends...too bad they weren't when I was married into the family...I have a brother who is divorced and he and wife No. 1 have a daughter, and the family does have to deal with some delicate situations..trying not to offend or hurt anyone's feelings..I do sympathize with the children of divorces - they are the ones who really suffer in the long run...