There is a chance of getting caught. More often than not. Most of the time, if the woman is observant enough, she will know. Then the detective work begins.
Sure, I can sympathize with the First Lady of KY, as well as any woman. Hey, I've been there myself (not publicized, of course). I know how it feels, but I will say that open communication between the couple DOES help.
Sometimes when some people get a little power, it tends to go to their head and they begin to feel they are above getting caught at any wrong doings.
I am in no way saying this is what has happened in the Patton case. I don't know. I don't live with them, so I couldn't give any details there....other than what I read.
This message has been edited by GRFleming on Sep 24, 2002 11:56 AM