So, my husband and I have been married for 2 years now. I am a little over 300 lbs, and he is about 450. When we first started having sex, BOY, it was great! He is an excellent lover. Around the time of our wedding, it seemed that his interest diminished. We would flirt and flirt all day long, but when it came to bedtime, he would roll over and fall asleep without so much as a kiss or a hug or anything. I immediately thought it was me. We didnt have sex until a week after our wedding. He said it was because in his youth, he did lots of drugs and there was a huge emphasis on sex, and since hes been clean, he has no interest. Also, that his size makes it hard for him, that he gets out of breath very easily. I mean, I realize sex is no walk in the park, especially with our size. But now, its been two years, and he would rather masturbate, than come to bed and have sex with me. Ive tried suggesting different positions, and different things besides intercourse, but he just doesnt seem interested. I dont want to, but I feel like maybe its not that hes not interested in sex, but that maybe hes not interested in sex with me? I dont know. Thats why Im asking for advice. Thanks. Felic
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