i got married about a year and a half ago and we certainly slowed down in the sex area. when we first got married we were going at least once or more a day. then i got sick and had to stop. and when we started back up it didn't get back to where it once was. for us we both gained some weight and has made things harder. and at times for me i have too much on my mind. getting married changes a lot of things and when those things start to really hit you. it is a shock in some ways and you don't want to have sex cause your mind is going crazy about the bills, the this, the that.
but if your in the mood and you want some. try teasing him by rubbing his neck or legs and slowly start hitting those oh ya spots on his body that start turning him on. and once you have made his friend wake up he will be sure to follow along. trust me it works.
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